When mom complains that dad doesn't bring a baby-how much have you considered trusting dad?

The consultant met many mothers who complained about how hard it was for their father to take care of the baby without a baby. For the sake of their children, they lost themselves, sacrificed their jobs, became yellow-faced women, and even for breast milk, resulting in sagging breasts, having a husband, and seemingly living the life of a single mother, or even having an affair with her husband.

It is very hard and difficult to understand these mothers, which is the greatness of mothers.

But have you thought about why fathers choose to run away from raising children?

Some dads do it for their careers, which are more important than anything else. However, most dads still like children and are willing to take part in raising babies, but why are mothers getting more and more tired and dads getting less and less aware of what to do?

I gave birth to my little daughter after five days in the hospital, so I observed all kinds of parents and children every day during my stay in the hospital.

When the wife is in labor, it takes about 8 to 12 hours, or even longer. At this time, you can see that most couples are very loving. Basically, the husband helps his wife and brings her tea and water. Some husbands even ask for a caesarean section because they don't want her to suffer.

when the wife began to have labor pains, she opened her fingers and entered the labor room. Husbands who are waiting anxiously outside, especially some of them have been born for more than 1 hours, and they can't wait to have children for their wives.

when the child is released from the delivery room, he becomes a father and experiences the feeling of being a father. I haven't deeply experienced what it is like to be a father, and my father has gradually become an outsider. Grandma appeared, grandma appeared, and Yueyue appeared. No one trusted the role of dad anymore. The only existence of dad became running errands, shopping and checking out.

as a mother, how much do you trust your father?

when two people get married, they form a new family system. First, they are husband and wife, and then the children join the family. However, with the arrival of the children, many mothers don't give their fathers the opportunity to take part in bringing up the children. They don't trust their fathers, believe in Lunar New Year, and believe in their grandmothers.

when I gave birth to my eldest daughter, I broke water at home. When my husband and I went to the hospital, my nanny, grandparents and my mother were all skeptical.

I choose to trust my husband, believing that he can take care of me and be competent for the role of father. My husband witnessed the birth of the baby, and he still remembers my whole birth experience clearly, including the crying of the baby.

The baby was pushed out of the delivery room, and he took on the task of taking care of the baby. At first, he was not proficient in how to change diapers, how to hold the baby and how to feed the baby. I chose to trust him.

An Anhui mother lived in the same ward. Her child was a premature baby. She stayed in the hospital for 4 days, and never saw her father, only her mother-in-law accompanied her.

My husband takes care of me, and she and her mother-in-law are very envious, saying that they have never seen such a man, and they are one in a million.

I smiled and answered, raising children is a problem that couples face together, and others are all assistants. When her mother-in-law went out, she complained why her husband didn't come. Her husband couldn't take care of the children.

I said, if your husband comes and you give yourself and your children to him, will you trust him? Immediately, he can't do anything. It's even more troublesome when he comes. It's worse than his mother-in-law. Then don't complain that your husband is not involved.

After giving birth to my eldest daughter, I came home from the hospital, and the customs and parenting concepts of the north and the south were inconsistent. My mother gave birth to four children, and she thought she was experienced. My in-laws should also participate, and everyone argued endlessly. There are nannies in the middle, and they also express their views.

During the second trimester, my husband and I are always together at night. Although we are very tired, a man's participation in children is built up little by little.

a few days ago, my husband and colleagues were going to have a baby, so I told my husband to unload the goods quickly, and it would be easy for the baby to be born. Husband replied that the birth of the child is the beginning of real fatigue.

Only when a man takes part in taking care of the baby can he experience the hardship of a woman taking care of her children. With this hard work, the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious, and the children get enough fatherly love. My eldest daughter didn't use me to cut her nails until she was one and a half years old. She used to let her father cut her nails. This is a child's trust in her father.

In the community, many people have never seen my husband playing outside with his children, and sometimes they will sympathize with me because I am too tired.

My youngest daughter has never left me and spent the whole day with her father since she resigned. Last Thursday, I had to accompany my grandmother to see a doctor. I didn't worry about whether my child would leave me, so I chose to trust my father. I left with peace of mind. When I came back from my illness, the child was very happy with his father, and kept calling his father hello, almost all day on Friday. This is the natural link between children and fathers.

The mother has been with her child since she was pregnant, and she has accepted this little life 1 months earlier than her father. After the child is born, her father will feel this little life and experience the continuation of his life.

If your father comes home to play games, watch TV and play mobile phones, and you are too busy, and your father has nothing to do, then you need to be aware and reflect. How much do you trust your father?

If the man doesn't take part in raising the baby, my mother still feels that she has worked hard, complained about injustice and found such an irresponsible man. It is recommended to look at this widely circulated paragraph: the fact that the European Cup is made of iron proves that a man can get up in the middle of the night to breastfeed his children, and he can also get up early to buy you breakfast and chat with you in the middle of the night. If he doesn't do this, it means that you are not even as good as a ball!