A joke about who is the head of the family.

Once the child gets good grades, his parents make it obvious and want the whole world to know. On the other hand, if the child has any shortcomings or faults, parents will never say anything, and even sometimes others will kindly raise them and retort that it will easily hurt the child's self-esteem. You know, if you keep shielding children like this, it will be harmful to their growth.

I once heard Degang Guo tell such a cross talk joke. The teacher asked the students, "Who burned the Yuanmingyuan?"

The student said that he didn't know, and his parents immediately came up to clear the way: "Burn it, can't you compensate?" Although this is just a joke, it also shows from the side that some parents always take the initiative to take responsibility for their children no matter what problems they have. However, children will grow up after all, and we are getting old day by day, so it is impossible to be responsible for them all our lives.

The article "Touching the Dragon and Talking about the Queen Zhao" said: "Parents love their children and have far-reaching influence. "It can be seen that the real love for children must be to make long-term plans for their future and be responsible for their future life. Therefore, from now on, if children do something wrong, as parents, they can neither indulge unprincipled nor abuse at will. But patiently help them analyze, let them understand what is right and what is wrong, learn a lesson and take a warning.

Rules are rules, and no one can have privileges. When my son was in kindergarten, one weekend, the school arranged a parent-child activity and invited my husband and me to participate. More than 30 students and nearly 50 parents, the scene is very spectacular. My son broke away from the normal state at home and became a small leader. He arranged "work" for me and his father, and we cooperated happily.

Halfway through the parent-child activities, the teacher divided all the children into 6 groups with 6 people in each group, and asked them to play the role of adults. My husband and I sat down to have a rest, and soon I found that there seemed to be something wrong with my son's group. Only one child shouted, "You must all listen to me!" " "

The other five children, including their son, ignored the angry child. I continued to observe curiously. When the child saw that everyone ignored him, he quickly called his parents. The child's parents are already nearby. As soon as they heard the child's call, they hurried forward and asked, "What's the matter, friends? Who bullied you? " Tell mom and dad. "

The child pointed angrily at the other five children and said, "They all bully me."

Without waiting for their parents to say anything, the five children said in unison, "We didn't."

Originally, after grouping, the teacher asked them to choose a group leader, and then the group leader assigned roles to other students. Everyone is discussing with great interest who is more suitable to be the team leader. But this boy named Pumbaa is not happy. He thinks he should be the team leader and everyone should listen to him, otherwise he won't play the game with everyone.

After understanding the situation clearly, Pumbaa's parents discussed with the other five children: "Children, you are all obedient good children, will you help your uncles and aunts?" Let pengpeng be the team leader this time. After the activity, my uncle and aunt invite everyone to the amusement park, ok? "

One of the children immediately refused: "No! We can ask our parents to take us to the amusement park, but we must listen to everyone. "

Seeing that the children refused to cooperate, Pumbaa's parents changed their strategy: "Why don't you listen to the adults?"

The children said noisily, "Why don't you ask your friends to listen to you?"

At this time, the parents of other children passed by, and the parents of friends turned to beg adults: "Please talk to your children and promise our friends this time. When the child is at home, we depend on him for everything. He is used to it. "

One of the mothers said unhappily, "Our children are loved by grandparents at home, and I can't help it."

Pumbaa's parents continue to humbly beg other children and adults. Adults are also embarrassed to refuse too obvious. They all use children as an excuse: "Children should play, and we can't force them. Let the children decide for themselves! "

As a result, several other children expressed their reluctance to play with their friends. Pumbaa was angry with his parents: "I want them to listen to me!" " I want them to listen to me! "

His parents coaxed him: "Be a good friend, mom and dad will listen to you, and grandparents will listen to you when you go home."

Finally, the teacher came to ask Pumbaa to come back to the team, but the children obviously didn't want to play with Pumbaa, and Pumbaa seemed very lonely in the group. The teacher told Pumbaa's parents that Pumbaa is usually not gregarious at school and the children don't want to play with him. Parents should pay attention to family education. Although Pumbaa's parents nodded repeatedly and said they would pay attention, I felt from their behavior that this might be their usual reaction, and they would definitely stay the same when they got home.

It is not difficult to see from the attitude of Pumbaa's parents that Pumbaa must be the "head of the family" and the whole family can move according to Pumbaa's will. In fact, this problem is common in modern one-child families, but some are light and some are heavy, while friends are obviously more serious.