How to get along with the elderly

1, but it is meaningful to get along with people, especially how to get along with men much older than yourself. First, I think a woman must know how to advance and retreat. Older men usually have a lot of things to do and consider things comprehensively. Don't bother them all the time. Secondly, older men may not be able to accompany you sometimes, but they may give you a richer life materially, but you should not rely too much on men, for example, asking him for some gifts often will arouse his disgust. This will make him think it's just your ATM. Sincerity is the most important thing for people to get along with each other. Whether as close lovers or ordinary friends, everyone should get along closely. If you have anything on your mind, talk to the good side and never stab you in the back. This is very immoral and undesirable. Note: There are different ways to get along with peers or lovers much older than yourself. We can only meet each other in the process of communication and make some compromises and concessions, so that the relationship between the two people can develop steadily for a long time. How to get along with an old man 2. Determine the relationship you want to establish with him. I tell you, if you want to have an affair with that old man, then you should stop thinking about how sincere or kind, practical and reliable the other person is. An affair itself is not a sincere relationship. Wouldn't it be ridiculous for you to let the old man give you sincerity again? If you really want to be with each other, or you love each other, then you should have snacks, and you should have enough patience and endurance to get along with old men, otherwise your relationship may change in minutes. Don't try to completely change him. He wants to completely change an old man. Personally, I think that's a bit like a fantasy. Of course, if he is very attentive to you, he may change one or two things, but that is just to please you, and it is only an illusion on the surface. The old man has a strong heart. Besides, he will experience a lot when he is old, and his habits, cognition and so on are deeply rooted. Everything about others, especially those younger than yourself, will not change easily, even if he loves you. You can appropriately ask him to change a little, but don't expect him to become what you want. In that case, you will be disappointed and he will be bored. Be prepared to be suspected by him. This is the consistent style of too many old men and cannot be changed in character. The more you care, the more suspicious you will be, especially those of the opposite sex who are younger and close to each other. They'll act like crazy all day. Get along with the elderly. If you say you love me, you must trust me unconditionally. That's absolutely impossible. Of course, the reason why they doubt you is always because they love and care about you. Although it sounds ridiculous, the reality is that they either leave or accept everything about the elderly, including doubts. Patiently listen to him talk about "thinking about the past and thinking about the future". Why are old men more mature than young people? Because they have experienced a lot, through the storm, age has given them a gift, that is, a sense of maturity and calmness that cannot be disguised. However, you should also understand that the other side of the advantages of anything is also a disadvantage. For some old people with many experiences, thinking about what they did and what they did in those years is their favorite thing to discuss or tell. Get along with an old man, be patient and listen to his thoughts in those years. They will also look at your attitude when telling stories. Remember, every word and every look they make has a deep meaning. Pack up coquetry, stubborn. There may be many girls who think that finding a partner needs to find an older man. They know it will hurt people, not as irritating as a young man, and so on. Even if a girl does something wrong, as long as she is spoiled, the old man will choose to forgive. In fact, I want to say that this is just an imagination. Your coquetry is of no use to old men. The more you coquetry to achieve your goal, the less the old man may let you go. Why? Because the old man is experienced, he is afraid of giving you bad habits. But when you insist on one thing, you can put away your coquetry and be stubborn, and the elderly should choose appropriate concessions. Your "personal freedom" is best to put away your personal freedom, which includes many things, including your own thinking, your own style, your own habits, your own preferences and so on. If you want to get along well with old men, you'd better put away these personal freedoms, because the sensitivity, paranoia and caution of old men will make you helpless. They will say that they will give you all the freedom you want, but if you are really happy to have personal freedom, you will find that old men will make it clear to you that they can't give you so-called personal freedom at all. Of course, this can also be understood as an old man eager to love you. In short, you need your own understanding. Give him enough "security". Many people will say, what security does an old man want? According to reason, a little girl usually asks an old man for a sense of security. Is it a bit of a joke that old people need a sense of security? Don't worry, listen to me slowly. Old men have really experienced a lot and have enough ability to protect people around them, but they are particularly sensitive and suspicious of men and women's feelings. If you want to fall in love with an old man, you must let them know that you are sincere, otherwise he will always doubt you. Love, let's hurry. Having said so much, it seems that the old man has few advantages but many disadvantages. Actually, I shouldn't think so. I was just telling the truth. It depends on how you understand it. For example, the old man is suspicious, which you can understand as the true expression that the old man loves you deeply, and so on. In short, get along with old men, or really love them, or go away quickly. Old men don't have the time and energy to play games with you, and they will be ambiguous, but that ambiguity must be based on not harming any of their own interests. How to get along with old men 3 0 1 In love life, no matter what age you are, you are a new student of love. Everyone is hesitant and timid when facing the person he likes. Coupled with the rapid rise of heartbeat hormones, people are often at a loss. Especially for couples who have been together for a long time, love has moved from passion to calm. In the long and dull life, many women don't know how to get along with men. Middle-aged men are different from young boys. When they were young, they were energetic and impulsive, but with the precipitation of time, they have become mature and steady. They have experienced the beauty of the world and the indifference of the world. They understand that only they can understand the warmth and coldness of human feelings. What they need is to get to know each other and be together. But many women, when getting along with middle-aged men, give them a flattering gesture, fearing that they will lose the love of men because they are no longer young. And women's caution, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, is not only unpopular with men, but also counterproductive and boring men. 02. Wei Xueman is a married lady. She and Wang Liang have been married for more than ten years, and their children have started junior high school. In the long marriage of more than ten years, many couples' feelings have changed from love to affection, and even some couples' feelings have broken down, but the feelings of more than ten years remain the same. No matter where there are many people or few people, we will hold each other's hands and say hello to each other every morning and evening. After more than ten years of marriage, they are still in a state of love. Wei Xueman has a good "means" to get along with Wang Liang. She knew that no middle-aged man would like his wife to do housework all day like a nanny. A man wants someone to take care of his life and a woman to stay beautiful. Therefore, Wei Xueman has grasped this balance well. She not only keeps the housework in order, but also enriches herself through reading and studying in her spare time. Instead of being tortured by time and housework like a yellow-faced woman, she is becoming more and more attractive. Wang Liang also has a sense of crisis and always revolves around her. Wei Xueman also understands that most middle-aged men have made some achievements in their work, and they often can't separate work from life, and they also maintain a "leading state" at home. In view of this, Wei Xueman always respects Wang Liang's advice and extracts favorable conditions from it and applies them to her life, which makes Wang Liang give her due respect and love. Based on this, Wang Liang thinks about Wei Xueman day and night. Although she is no longer young and out of shape, he still loves her deeply, even without her. 03. Through her experience, Wei Xueman also summed up the truth that getting along with middle-aged men and doing these four things well can make him miss you day and night: no matter how busy you are, reply to the message as soon as possible. Women should understand that replying to men's information in time is a great respect for men, and you can also master men's dynamics as soon as possible. Maybe he just talked to you about the difficulties in his work. Although your reply may not be helpful, it is very important for men that your words are an oasis in the desert. Therefore, even if you don't know how to reply to his message, you can't ignore it. Even if you reply "thank you" or "I'm here" to let him know that he is not fighting for this family alone, naturally your position in his heart can only grow bigger and bigger. No matter how late it is, prepare delicious food for him. As the saying goes, "If you want to catch a man's heart, you must catch a man's stomach." Most middle-aged men have made some achievements in their work. Most of their daily lives are in a state of entertainment or overtime. After a hard day's work, what men want most is the warmth at home. Even if you only prepare a cup of honey water for him after drinking, or just make a bowl of noodles, it is a great concern for a hard-working man, so that he can realize your concern and naturally miss you day and night. Anyway, respect his advice. Mutual respect between men and women is the premise of maintaining the best relationship. Ask a man for advice before you do anything. Even if you don't take his point of view, you are respected by him. Participate in all your daily life and let men know that he plays an important role in your heart. This feeling of attaching importance to him has great appeal to men. When a woman does this, a man will respect you in a subtle way, and he will want to listen to your opinion in everything he does. When you penetrate into men's hearts, men will naturally "miss you day and night", want your approval, and even do things to please you. You should enrich your woman at any time. If you want to keep a man's love for you for a long time, you must constantly improve your charm in addition to your dedication to him. Read a book or take some courses to improve your image; Travel broadens your horizons; Going to the gym to keep yourself in the best condition is an effective way to make men miss you day and night. A woman is rich in connotation and good in cultivation. No matter what topic a man talks about, she has her own unique opinions. Such a woman has "fatal attraction" no matter what men face. You know, when you attract a man's attention, his attention will also be focused on you. It is natural to miss you day and night, and your feelings will become more profound. 04. Remind women that it is impossible to get a perfect relationship without quarrels and differences. However, a long-term stable and happy life can be achieved through hard work. As long as you focus on managing your own life and live your own life well, men will also give you sincerity and love, then your feelings will be sublimated, and it is reasonable to think about it day and night. Happiness never comes for no reason, and men don't miss you day and night for no reason. You must make some efforts to firmly grasp his heart by some means. # Emotion #