I feel so scared. I have no money to give to my parents when I go home for the New Year, and I have no money to go out and find a girlfriend.

So you just have no money and can't do anything, right? First of all, going home for the New Year and looking for a girlfriend are two different things. Go home for the Spring Festival first. Giving money to parents is a trivial matter. Maybe he is unhappy, but he won't blame you. Coming back is the greatest happiness. You may not understand, but, really: so.

No money to find a girlfriend, no one can help you. As long as you can bear hardships and work hard, there is no one who can't make money. It is impossible not to find a girlfriend.

Aren't all the people worse than you married and have children?

Think about how your parents got here.