How to find the right topic in love?

Topic 1: Childhood is a memorable period. Some childhood experiences will be unforgettable, happy or sad. Tell each other some interesting things about his childhood, and tell them things that his parents were angry about when he was a child. On the one hand, it can create a relaxed and pleasant chat atmosphere, on the other hand, it can remind the other person of his childhood nostalgia and make the other person willing to tell you something about his childhood. When talking about childhood, laughing at your childishness and making each other happy is also a way to close the relationship. Topic 2: Travel Experience Tell me about the interesting places you have been to, the magnificent scenery you have seen, and the unforgettable experiences you have had during your trip. First, arouse the other person's interest in your travel experience, and then let the other person tell you about the cities you have been to. If the other person has no travel experience, ask her where she wants to go and express her willingness to take her with her when she has time. This is undoubtedly the icing on the cake for the closer relationship between you. Topic 3: Their favorite food is a pleasant topic. Most people have no resistance to food. Talking about what food they have eaten can not only help them understand each other's tastes, but also find their similarities. If the other person says that she can cook something delicious, then you can take the opportunity to praise her and express the hope that you will have a chance to taste her cooking, and she will be happy to accept it. If you are a good cook yourself, don't forget to invite her to have a taste. Topic 4: Hobbies Talking about each other's hobbies is an easy topic. Tell each other what they like to do in their spare time. When she talks about her hobbies, you should be very interested and actively guide the topic to her hobbies, so that she can become the protagonist of the topic. On the one hand, it can arouse her interest in chatting, on the other hand, you can learn about her hobbies. Topic 5: Dreams and dreams are endless topics. Everyone's yearning for dreams is beautiful and endless. Dreams are also an imagination of a perfect life in everyone's mind, and also the source of people's yearning for the future. With dreams as the topic, the chat content can run through from childhood to the future. It can be said that dreams are a topic that can't be said for a lifetime. Sharing your dreams with each other can not only relax the mood of chatting, but also increase mutual understanding and bring each other closer. How to fall in love and find a topic 2 Talking about daily life Many times when two people get along, there is really not much to talk about, but some special things will happen in life, so that when we get along, we can talk about some interesting, happy, fresh and sad things we encounter in daily life, so that the other party can see what they have experienced even if they are not around, and let them know more about themselves. Talking about childhood Many stories will happen when everyone grows up. Childhood is a period that many people cannot forget. In childhood, there are always many things worth remembering. We can talk about our childhood, happy, sad, childish and interesting things that happened when we were children. Although your past partner didn't participate, you can learn about your past through chatting, which can bring us closer. Talking about hobbies When a relationship is just established, we need to get to know each other better. At this time, we can get to know each other by talking about hobbies, what is their greatest interest, what they like to do at ordinary times, and what their hobbies are, so as to know whether they have the same hobbies, and also to know each other's life and experience, as well as their personality and taste. Talking about Dreams In different periods of life, we all have different dreams. Dreams are beautiful. In love, talking about dreams with each other, whether childhood dreams or present dreams, is a topic of chatting with each other. Dreams are an endless topic. Talk about dreams, and maybe you will find that you have more in common. In chatting, sharing each other's dreams can also make the atmosphere more relaxed and harmonious. How to find a topic in love 3 1, How to find a topic in love (1) You can talk about things that the other person is interested in, such as the other person's hobbies, so that two people can not only have a topic, but also get to know each other better, and their feelings can be closer, and they will naturally be much more comfortable to get along with. The interests and hobbies of both sides should be different. Besides talking about this topic, after knowing what the other person likes to do, you can also finish it with the other person, so that you can better integrate into the other person's life. (2) It is very important to love each other and share life with each other. When two people first get along, they are both interested in each other and there will be endless flowers. Over time, falling in love will become more and more dull, and the freshness of both sides will naturally decrease. If you want to have a long-term relationship, you need to share your life with your lover. Don't feel that your life is dull, so you don't want to tell each other that many lovers have feelings. (3) You can start a topic in a humorous way. If two people want their relationship to get better and better, they still need to maintain this relationship well. You can't stop talking just because there is no topic. If this continues for a long time, love will go wrong. If both sides want to start a dialogue, they can find some humor online. Just kidding, so that the other person will be in a good mood. You can directly use this to open the topic. 2. What if you always quarrel in love (1)? Learn to understand each other. Some people are more self-centered at ordinary times. If you don't change after falling in love, it's easy to ask the other person to be self-centered. Slowly, two people are particularly prone to quarrel. Therefore, if you want to solve this problem, you need to learn to understand each other and think from their perspective. Learning to understand will be very helpful to this relationship and love will be sweeter. (2) After falling in love and quarreling, we must solve this matter in time. What we fear most is procrastination. The longer the delay, the greater the gap between the two people, and the result may be a breakup. Therefore, if you want a long-term relationship, you must not have a cold war. In fact, no matter what the relationship, lovers or friends, as long as there is a problem, it is particularly important to solve it in time after the quarrel. Don't think about each other and come to me. If only he had come to me. If both sides think so, then this relationship will gradually alienate, so the cold war is more terrible than quarreling. (3) After the quarrel, both of them should move on. The quarrel had better have a result, and then both sides need to agree with the result. Finally, we need to remember this lesson. The past is the past, and we can't talk about quarrels in the future. Turning over old scores is particularly hurtful. Only when both sides move forward can our feelings get better and better.