Why no matter how well you do, relatives will constantly belittle themselves, while friends will not?

Hello, I'm glad to answer your question.

Your question is.

Why, no matter how well you do it,

Relatives will constantly belittle themselves,

Friends don't.

First of all, two people stand from different angles.

Secondly, the two people have different starting points.

So don't let others criticize you,

You think others are bad.

You have to understand that his starting point is for your own good,

Or deliberately belittle you.

Not all people who praise you are good people.

Not everyone who scolds you is a bad person.