Parents complained in the class group that the teacher was irresponsible. The teacher responded in three sentences, distinguishing right from wrong.

Kindergartens are different from primary schools. The purpose of teachers is to teach students common sense of life and cultivate their instincts in dealing with others. Compared with teachers in primary and secondary schools, their responsibilities for teaching courses and knowledge are not that big, maybe. Because of this, some parents look down upon kindergarten teachers, and conflicts between parents and teachers arise.

Some time ago, a chat record of a kindergarten class group went viral. A parent openly shouted in the class group, accusing the teacher of being irresponsible. He thought he would get the support of other parents, but it turned out to be a joke. It was actually the parent himself.

The existence of the class group is to facilitate teachers to release student-related information to all parents. Generally, one-on-one communication between parents and teachers is through private chat, but this parent obviously wants to use the class group to provide information for himself. To build momentum, he asked the teacher "Why don't you pull up your children's pants?"

Although this sentence was meaningless, the teacher still proposed a private chat to explain, but the parents refused and insisted on complaining in the class group , also said, "Kindergarten teachers are so delicate that they are not willing to lift their children's pants?" At the end, he also incited other parents to speak out and comment.

To be honest, after reading this chat record, I believe some people have already felt uncomfortable. Why do kindergarten teachers have the obligation to lift students' pants? Parents' words also seem to regard kindergarten teachers as a profession with a lower social status, and serving students is something they should do. However, it may be that the teacher has done something inappropriate that makes the parents angry, so let's read on. .

Seeing that the parents persisted, the teacher also responded to the matter in the group. In just three sentences, he differentiated right from wrong.

The teacher said that first of all, the student is already five years old, and a five-year-old child cannot yet lift his pants. It is the parents who should reflect. Secondly, in order to teach the kindergarten students to be polite, the teacher taught them to help lift their pants. He wanted to say "please help me" to his trousers, but this parent's child had a very arrogant attitude and always ordered the teacher to lift his trousers. After repeated corrections, the teacher stopped shouting. In the end, although the student was rude, the teacher She still helped him lift his pants, not because the student said the teacher didn't help.

Based on the teacher’s response, I believe right and wrong are very clear, but this parent obviously doesn’t think so. She thinks it is appropriate for kindergarten teachers to lift students’ pants. Even though they call them teachers, they are actually just teachers. The nanny, who is not qualified to be equal to parents, also said that since kindergarten teachers cannot teach students knowledge like primary school teachers, they should take the responsibility of taking care of students.

At this point, the other parents in the group couldn’t stand it anymore, and they all stood up to speak for the teacher. Unexpectedly, they were angered by this parent who insisted on seeking justice in the group, thinking that other parents They were all trying to curry favor with the teacher so that they could speak for the teacher. In the end, in order to maintain the harmony of the class, the teacher had no choice but to invite the parent out.

Analysis:

This parent mentioned in the chat that his child was born prematurely, so his self-care ability is poor. In fact, if this parent had talked to the teacher in private from the beginning, If you communicate well, the teacher may be considerate and take more care of the student. However, if the parents openly make a fuss in the class and criticize the teacher in a condescending manner, anyone else may feel uncomfortable.

It is true that kindergarten teachers may not have as many functions in educating students as primary and secondary school teachers, but this does not mean that kindergarten teachers are just nannies who need to serve around a child. Every parent feels sorry for their children. But to be honest, parents over-indulge and even require teachers to pamper their children to the same extent. This educational philosophy may be the reason why contemporary students have high scores and low quality.

As we all know, the threshold for kindergarten teachers is usually set at a college degree, and many parents of today’s students have educational experience above a bachelor’s degree. Perhaps this is one of the reasons why some parents look down on kindergarten teachers, but please These parents think carefully that education in kindergarten is to lay the foundation for students' future life and cultivate students' good habits. Although it sounds like it has nothing to do with students' future academic performance, it is the training at this stage that allows students to learn in the correct way. Growth on the road.

Perhaps the academic qualifications of kindergarten teachers are indeed not as high as those of some parents, but the role of kindergarten teachers cannot be ignored. The growth of students is like building a high-rise building, if the foundation is not laid well, no matter how magnificent the top is built, the future will not be It is within reach, so I hope parents will take the education of kindergarten children seriously and not use the excuse of loving their children to develop this educational responsibility. At the same time, they should also give teachers the respect they deserve. Only the mutual cooperation of parents and teachers can have a positive impact on the growth of students. More helpful.

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