My husband is bald, selfish and deformed. After ten years of marriage, he has never given me love, but the child is like this, and so am I.

Please be patient. It is wrong to hit people first, but your 0-year marriage shows two things: "1" is not dominant at home; Always passive, so your communication skills are problematic. Although it takes two hands to applaud, you can face silence and concession. Silence and forbearance are not the solution to the problem, but will intensify his temper. In addition, your observation ability may not be strong. If he is in a bad mood, you should hide first and be careful. You can't expect to solve problems that haven't been solved in 0 years, let alone suddenly come up with good ideas. As the saying goes: people who don't play hard, people who don't play lazy, and people who don't have eyes. Therefore, instead of fighting, it is better to look at it more. Now you are beaten again, wronged, sad and heartbroken. Since we can't live without it, we should think about how to live. But you've been married for 0 years, so put down your children and say nothing. It is not so easy to mention the intersection and property of family and friends. What's more, you disagree at best. Get a job and don't stay at home every day. It is ok to work at leisure. It's not tiring to go home and take care of your family. I will change myself slowly. Don't care about him all day, the more you care about everything, the more you hurt yourself. Care about your clothes, care about your work and mood. I have nothing to do every day to watch some personnel, jokes and news. Occasionally, when he is in a good mood, talk to him and have an injection. He will be surprised, and of course he will be even more surprised if you know what he likes. 0 years of unhappy marriage, really because you don't work hard. You can't blame everything on one person. You learn what he likes, say it when he is in a good mood, and then your expression will be serious and interesting. How simple it is. It's been 0 years, but it's hard to seize this opportunity, even if there is one. Don't try to change others first, learn to change yourself first. What's more, you can't change him and make your life happier and better. Cultivate your own mood. No matter how good he is, no matter how fierce you are, you may still laugh. Then he might think, I'm fucking angry. What are you laughing at? You tell him with a smile: honey, don't be angry and tell you a good thing or a happy thing. . Communication, love and care are actually a word+a warm name. Try to change his topic and calm his mood with the happy things you meet. Once may not be effective, but a long-term attempt will surely succeed. I suggest you talk to your friends more about how to run a man. Really can't. Buy some books to charge. Don't always think that misfortune is who's right and who's wrong. It's meaningless. Only by studying hard can we change it. "If I can change myself, then I will probably change my family, even my country and even the whole world." Obviously, if I change myself, it is possible to change my family, and the choice is greater than the effort. Choose to change yourself first, not his or his family. Walk slowly. With 0 years of patience, I believe you should make good use of your time. You are just a person, change yourself slowly. If you really want to work hard, that's all right. If you don't work hard, you will continue to be unhappy. The above words are not very nice, but I really did it for you. I hope you are happy.