What are the reasons for those men to cheat?

The British Daily Mail reported. Jin Zezhi, a professor of evolutionary psychology at the London School of Economics, found that. The average IQ of men who can remain faithful in marriage is 103, while the average IQ of men who have had an affair is 97. The data shows that men with high IQ are more loyal to marriage. That is to say, men who cheat have lower IQ.

From an evolutionary point of view, early human sexual behavior is rather chaotic. Men with higher IQ. You can abandon the concept of polygamy. Be bound by the act of acceptance and accept monogamy. Resist all kinds of temptations from outside. Better understand other people's feelings. More selfless. Men with low IQ tend to be selfish and can't help being tempted. The reason why I cheated once is also ironic. Even the obvious logic is not clear. It can't be called a reason, but more often it's just shirking responsibility and throwing the pot. For example, some men will accuse their wives after cheating.

You are too strong. You are not gentle enough.

You pay so much attention to the children that you ignore me.

You refuse to live with me as husband and wife.

You are too strict with me. I can't breathe.

. . . . . .

And cheated, you asked him to end the superficial relationship. He also has various reasons.

"You should be better to me and care more about me. If you manage your marriage well, the extramarital affair will naturally end. "

You want to see his mobile phone, and he says, "I have the right to keep my privacy."

Let him end with a third party. "It's over, it doesn't matter. It's your problem that you don't trust me. Adjust yourself. It has nothing to do with me. " If you think so and still doubt me, I can't help it. Anyway, I am broken. "

If you think your wife seems afraid of divorce. He will be unscrupulous: "It is impossible to break up, and it is impossible to break up in this life. You can, but you can't divorce. "

You talk more often. He would say, "It's over, and you keep bringing it up. Feelings have long been quarreled by you. "

Someone killed someone and denied it. Even if you put the evidence in front of him. He can also find various reasons. Go downstairs to the hotel and get them a room. Where does the hotel pick him up on business? As the joke goes, even if you are caught in bed, I say we are studying the structure of the body.

Other men simply don't talk. When it comes to anything related to feelings, just shut up and respond completely silently, feeling that there is nothing to do with him.

Men have so many reasons. Some men say that they are worried and worried that they will admit it. After returning to this home, they will hold their heads like sinners in the future. So some will pass the buck and throw the pot. For these men, we can pave a way for him to go home and let him see that if we solve the problems in marriage together. He can reverse his conviction.

And some men are unscrupulous. He just lies with his eyes open because he thinks he can contain his wife. I don't think my wife can do anything about him. He even wants to continue to win her heart and realize a threesome. For such a man, we should dare to go to war, dare to expose the motives and goals behind ourselves, and establish our own divorce power. Only in this way can we save the marriage and break the extramarital affair.