4 tried-and-true ways to control your child's temper!

We often say that out of sight, out of mind, this is for children.

The same applies. Because children have weak self-control, it is difficult to control.

To control yourself, we must reduce the temptation to him.

Such as scissors, batteries, fragile cups.

Don't put things in front of children, they can't be seen when they are received.

Place, he won't clamor to play.

Another example is chocolate, ice cream and coke, which we don't want.

Let the children eat, and try not to buy it at home, let alone.

Eat in front of the children. Otherwise, it will not only be cruel to children,

It will also increase the contradiction between parents and children.

Don't always refuse children.

We always say that children are rebellious and love everything against us.

Fuck, but we adults are also rebellious.

Say "no, no" all day.

This danger can't be played, that one will be damaged and can't be touched. Never.

The more we refuse and restrain our children, the more emotional they will be.

The more times it loses control.

Suggest that mom and dad find a time, take out a piece of paper and put you

Write down five things that children must obey and post them.

Go to the wall, communicate with your child and let him know that these rules are

Must be observed.

Divert attention in time

This trick is especially suitable for younger children.

And it is best to use it before his mood has completely collapsed.

For example, many parents will show their children after the injection.

Look at the scenery outside, or eat a candy to distract the child.

Intention is a very clever thing.

Take the children by car for a long time, or wait in the restaurant.

Toys, children's songs, games and food are also acceptable.

Take turns to distract the child.

You can also hide some children's toys in your bag at ordinary times.

Hide some snacks, toys and collect some funny smiles.

Words, games, magic, etc. They will send it at a critical moment.

Come in handy to avoid the emotional breakdown of children.

Affirm the child's efforts

Although children have innate differences in self-control, sons

Child psychologists also point out that the guidance and training the day after tomorrow are the same.

It will have a great influence on children's self-control.

In our daily life, on the one hand, we can use the above.

Ways to reduce children's temper tantrums. On the other hand, I

Children should also affirm their efforts and progress in time.

When children fidget, knock on the table and watch you cry.

Don't blame him, and don't label him "willful"

Sign, but you should be proud of your efforts to restrain yourself.

Stay calm and use your emotional contagion kid. The children shouted

The louder you speak, the softer and quieter you speak.

He spoke. When the child slowly calms down, he must be praised.

Praise him, "Baby, you talk to me so gently, I"

So happy.