How much harm can a parent say to a child?

Sometimes, a parent’s casual words can cause lifelong harm to a child. Previously, Fu Jiantao, who was trafficked since he was a child, recalled in an interview with the media: Since he was abducted in Shenzhen at the age of 4, he remembered many things from his childhood. After being abducted, he even remembered that he had his biological parents. . In the past 14 years, he has never shown it in front of buyers because he remembered what his mother said: "If you don't obey me, I will sell you." When he was young, he couldn't help but think - -Did his mother really sell him because he was not good? It was under the influence of this sentence that he did not dare to tell the truth, let alone find his parents easily. And his story also reminds us that sometimes, a casual joke from an adult may deeply hurt a child.

Never say these 7 sentences to your children:

“If you don’t obey me, your mother will not want you anymore”

“I am doing it all for you”

"Just study hard and don't worry about anything else."

"Why doesn't he hit others but just you?"

"Look at others. ”

“If you say you can’t do it, you can’t do it”

“Are you still crying?”

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In "Toxic Parents", psychologist Dr. Susan Forward said: "Children cannot distinguish between facts and jokes. They will believe what adults say about themselves and will It becomes your own concept. ”

The power of parents’ words is very powerful. It can make or break a child. Every child's future is hidden in every word of his parents.