How do you find the INFJ around you?

There are very few partners with INFJ personality around us, and it is difficult to find people with this personality. On the one hand, you should observe the thinking and learning process of your partners around you. On the other hand, you should carefully contact your partners around you to understand the emotional fluctuations and psychological jumps of others. Another point is to pay attention to your hobbies and values. There are very few people with INFJ personality, and they are good at hiding their true external performance in life to confuse everyone. Let's take a look at how to observe and discover the people with INFJ personality around them!

? First of all, in life, we should pay attention to other people's thinking and learning methods.

For people with INFJ personality, the thinking of doing things will not be particularly prominent in the public. Such people are usually good at hiding their own advantages and are not good at getting in touch with others, so they are always alone in the public, but it does not mean that they exclude everyone and cover up their high talents with humorous characteristics. Before everyone knows it, his work has been completed. In learning, such people prefer to study alone, and their learning efficiency is very high. In learning, they will hold a skeptical attitude for advice. In their impression, everyone's understanding is somewhat biased, but they will listen to your opinions carefully, and this kind of person has great advantages in memory, but it is only manifested in the memory of the psychological changes of the characters. Under some more rigid things, the memory is not obvious. In the final analysis, people with this personality have always been leaders in thinking and learning.

? Secondly, emotionally, we should always pay attention to excessive emotional fluctuations and obvious thinking jumps.

coldness and quietness are the emotional endorsements of this personality. This kind of person's emotional changes are capricious, and there is no law to speak of. Sometimes this kind of person is too enthusiastic (even for people who have just come into contact with him), and a little thing can make you happy, but in a blink of an eye, his emotions will fall to another height. Under the great psychological contradiction, sometimes he can be sad all day, and suddenly his inspiration will burst out and his life will come again. But this is only temporary. They prefer to be calm and alone, and they prefer to live and do things in a quieter environment. Under the influence of this emotion, there are more writers in this kind of personality. In terms of thinking, I can make a great leap quickly, and I can connect seemingly unrelated things and inspire people. Compared with other personalities, this personality is very calm and rational. It always looks at things from the perspective of others and takes care of everyone. Coupled with its own open and humorous attitude, there will be many intimate friends in life.

? Finally, in terms of values, we should pay attention to whether it is different or not.

Unique emotion and big thinking beat cast different values. Different from other personalities, the values of this kind of personality are obvious: they want to integrate into the collective life and get the recognition of others, but because of their solitary personality, they have no higher collective values. Natural coldness leads to a very kind heart, and everyone in the group can get in touch well, showing a kind: I am very good with everyone.

Having said that, I believe you have a relatively complete outline. In fact, no matter what kind of personality, as long as you can get along well with us, that is the best personality.