People nowadays laugh at honest and kind people.

There is an old saying that people are good at being bullied. Actually, it's suitable anywhere.

In feelings, if you are too kind, then the loved man has nothing to hide.

In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, if you are too kind, then your mother-in-law will climb on your head and produce contradictions.

Being too kind in the workplace will always be bullied and bossed around.

Remind everyone that we must be kind, but kindness should be prickly.

What are the reasons why honest people are always bullied in the workplace?

1 Don't know how to refuse.

The standard of a good man is to let go and never know to refuse any request from others.

At work, everyone thinks you are easy to talk to and is always busy looking for you. You carry all the wrong pots, and you deliver the takeout by express delivery.

Busy with other people's business all day, your own work has not been completed, and the boss thinks you are busy and incompetent.

Besides, your colleagues think you are easy to bully, so you should do these things. If one day you refuse, they will speak ill of you instead.

So people can't be fed too much. Good people don't mean good people.

First of all, you should have a correct attitude. My duty is to help you, not to help you. Honest people in the workplace should learn to refuse and not be afraid of offending others.

If you don't know how to refuse, you will always be a handyman in the company. There will always be things you can't finish, and your refusal will become an excuse for others to push their luck.

I don't know how to stick to my point of view.

I once met a colleague who thought she had a bad temper and a soft voice, but she was also very capable of working.

At a meeting to put forward a plan, she and another colleague both put forward a better plan, but that colleague knew how to seize the opportunity and express his thoughts.

But she just stood by and dared not say anything. I asked her if you had an idea, why didn't you say so?

He said I'd better go with everyone, for fear that everyone would object and have opinions.

This is an honest person, even if she is full of ink, she will not argue, let alone change, and she will do whatever her colleagues do.

A little transparent in the eyes of colleagues, gradually losing their own views and concerns and becoming a vassal of others. If people say a few words, they will defect.

A person who doesn't take the initiative to defend his thoughts and opinions is a good guy in the eyes of others.

You have to understand that you have your own ideas and opinions. This is not a conflict with others, nor a quarrel, but an expression of yourself. It's just a fact.

Don't be afraid to argue, sometimes obscurity and mediocrity are the most terrible.

I don't know how to fight back

It is said that the workplace is like a battlefield. This is a cruel place. If you are always a sheep, you will only be eaten by wolves.

You must learn to grow up, you must adapt to this society, and you must know how to fight back appropriately.

People treat you like a soft persimmon, thinking that you won't get angry if you joke. If you touch your bottom line, you will only lower it again, and you will always be a joke in the eyes of others.

Honest people should not feel stingy just because they are angry, others will think that I am unsociable and excluded by the company.

You'd rather not have this Zhong Hequn, and there's no need to lower yourself to cater to others.

Learn to fight back and refuse, let people know that you are not easy to bully, and you can make jokes, but if you go too far, don't say easy things.