Middle-aged people: Hold your horses, hold your horses, hold down the fire and hide things.

Some people say, "people are not as good as dogs when they reach middle age."

However, don't panic, you can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient.

You are the pillar of the family, even if you lose weight, you still have to live like a mountain.

No one will tell you where to go in the future, but don't panic, take your time, and a small stream will make a river and a sea.

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When there is chaos, hold the game steady.

During the Spring and Autumn Period, after Chu Zhuangwang succeeded to the throne, he did not care about state affairs for three years, and no one was allowed to report his work. Ministers don't understand, but they dare to be angry and dare not speak. They can only helplessly watch and sigh.

Some ministers laughed at him. He is a bird that can't fly or call.

Chu Zhuangwang said, "If you don't sing, it will be a blockbuster. If you don't fly, it will fly to heaven. "

In fact, in the past three years, Chu has been plagued by internal troubles and foreign invasion, including famine at home and foreign countries such as Yi and Yue. The power of Chu is actually in the hands of a group of people such as Ruo Ao. Chu Zhuangwang just has a title.

Clever Chu Zhuangwang, quietly observing and wooing a group of loyal subjects. When he decided to really take power, he quickly completed the personnel changes and prevented the invasion of foreign enemies.

As the saying goes: "Know yourself and know yourself, and you will win every battle." Instead of rushing into battle, it is better to stabilize your heart and seek your own game. Don't do nothing.

When the situation is chaotic, some people take advantage of the fire to rob, some people fan the flames, some people use static braking, and some people strive for progress steadily.

A real master, take one step and see ten steps. Middle-aged people, it is difficult at present, but you must see the end in ten years. Instead of tossing blindly, every intersection will panic. It's better to go in the given direction.

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At the bottom, just hold your horses.

Ups and downs are very common in life. However, many people are devastated when the trough comes. As everyone knows, the trough in fate is a new beginning and needs to be rearranged.

Businessman Chu Shi Jian made a lot of money in the tobacco industry when he was young. Later, he was trapped in a cage for many years. At the age of 75, he walked out of the cage and was free.

He returned to his hometown in Yuxi, Yunnan, and contracted more than 2,000 mu of wasteland with his family to grow tangerines.

Some old friends don't understand why people of an age are still tossing around. Moreover, the planting industry has a large investment and slow effect, and it is hard to say whether it can succeed.

Chu Shijian said, "Give me six years."

Sure enough, six years later, he became the "orange king".

The ancients said, "It takes ten years to sharpen a sword."

Life is only a few decades. If you can put ten years' time and energy into one thing, then you can succeed.

Many middle-aged people think that they have not read any books and have not gained a foothold in a certain industry. This kind of life is the life of working. In fact, they simply don't understand that it's not too late to start at forty. As long as they work hard, they will be popular at the age of fifty.

Life is hard, but you must have the courage to tear it down again. To be a man, the hardest thing is not to go forward desperately, but to "hold yourself steady."

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When you are angry, hold down the fire.

I like this sentence very much: "What's the use of being angry? People with ability are striving for success. "

Everyone will encounter angry things, and some inexplicable anger will gush out in their hearts.

At work, people often crush me and have to bow their heads. After all, middle-aged people dare not jump ship casually, even if they jump ship, they should be very sure.

Unemployment means that the whole family will be in trouble.

When I got home, my family didn't understand me and even said some sarcastic words. For example, someone next door made a lot of money and became a boss easily. Compared with you, one is in the sky and the other is underground. Why don't family members feel sad when they say such things?

If there are a hundred reasons to make you angry, then you should find a thousand reasons not to be angry.

A friend of mine drives a taxi for a living and works twelve hours a day.

Once, a friend's car was scratched by someone else's car. He jumped out of the car and wanted to scold. But when I saw several passengers in the back seat, I immediately changed my attitude and took the initiative to discuss with each other how to deal with the problem.

Our ancestors told us a truth: "It never rains but it pours." Anything bad, as long as you calm down and deal with it, will develop in the opposite direction.

The image of middle-aged people should be mature, steady, generous and calm. When you are angry, you lose.

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Hide things when you see people.

The worst thing about a person is not his heart, but his mouth.

If you can't control your mouth, you will get into trouble. Talking about yourself is to talk more to others; To say what others say is to offend others; What doesn't matter may be rumors; It will be painful to expose your scar. ......

When people reach middle age, they suffer without words, enjoy without words, talk less and do more.

There is such a plot in the Water Margin: Song Jiang crossed the river by boat and just sat down, and a person was crowded next to him. He had to step aside; The man was inexplicably angry and waved his hand in Song Jiang's face.

When the ship landed, the man realized that he was too reckless, and his colleagues also said that he had done something wrong.

Song Jiang said: "Everyone will encounter difficulties and have impulsive moments."

Be patient and calm. When people reach middle age, they should have the ability to understand others and the magnanimity to forgive others.

Being a man is as quiet as a deep pool, and no one can easily see through you. More importantly, in the depths of the pool, many fish, shrimps and aquatic plants can be raised. Quiet, it is particularly rich.

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When people reach middle age, good luck is made by themselves, and bad luck is a common thing in life. But it's really nothing Everyone has to get through this period.

I hope you and I can stabilize ourselves in the future.

Only when the situation is stabilized can we make suggestions.

Calm down, you can calm down and have a far-reaching impact.

Only by suppressing your anger can you be calm and free.

Hiding things can only make you laugh.

Being a pleasant person is because of self-discipline.

Author: coarse grains in cloth.

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