What is the last thing you can accept from others?

In fact, there are many things I can't accept, but what others say so far I think hurts me most is "go away!" In my opinion, what can break your heart must come from someone who is very important to you. Therefore, it is still difficult to occupy these two factors, resulting in a psychology that you can't accept. However, it happened to me again. You can imagine how sad I was.

Many people may think that what is generally unacceptable is mostly swearing, but it is not. Because I often hear common swearing, I automatically block it in my mind, and then my first reaction may be whether I am talking about myself. Only when you really touch your heart will you stay where you are for an instant, just like being struck by lightning. As I said, this sentence that I can't accept the most is actually nothing, but in a certain scene, if it comes from the people you care about, it will be particularly unacceptable.

I still remember the scene at that time, and it seems that I can still feel the feeling of heartbreak at that time. I am a person who likes to fight in groups. I am very happy when I work in groups, and then I hope to do my best to help everyone. So in a group activity, I kindly helped them, and as a result, a friend who played well with me said, "Go away." Although she said it in a joking tone, I knew in my heart that it was just a joke. As soon as she said it, I was finished, but I didn't know what happened, so I took it to heart and walked away silently. Maybe that friend didn't know that I had cared about this sentence until now, but fortunately, at least the gap was less.

Sometimes a casual joke is the most hurtful. You don't know what happened when others can't accept it. Maybe many years later, people will mention it, you may remember it, or even you may not know that you once said it. This also tells us to have an observant heart. A careful person will always consider the feelings of people around him, without giving people pressure, and take good care of everyone. I have always wanted to be such a person, but I have never been the most careful one.

A teacher once told us that there are two kinds of laziness, physical laziness and emotional laziness. We must never be emotionally lazy. If you are emotionally lazy, your happiness index will not be high, because you don't care about the people around you, and you can't expect to pay, how can you get a reward? Therefore, we should strive to be an emotionally diligent person, care about the people around us, and use our brains to decide whether to say anything before saying anything, which is good for everyone.