What are the precautions for getting along with your mother-in-law?

Just like the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is one of several problems that have not been overcome in 2 1 century ~ ~ and may never be overcome.

How can I put it? From my mother-in-law's point of view?

Your daughter-in-law should not let her daughter get involved, taking advantage of 1 800,000 (this year, the house is so expensive, does110,000 count as money? ~ ~) Hire a few nannies at home. Your daughter can go back to her parents' house occasionally, but it's impossible ~ ~ ~

Here, you need skills. After all, you and your mother-in-law are not under the same roof, so the time together is still short. So I think the key to the relationship between you and your mother-in-law lies in the first impression. You must understand this. Be gentle, don't always give empty promises. Look at your wife's face. You can ask her for help if necessary. You should be humorous, but don't talk too much. What is the scale? You can prepare some cold jokes. Don't you think it's coke when you get old? Maybe the old people were amused. Don't talk at length, try to make your words have charm and philosophy. It's best to know everything, because my father-in-law will definitely talk to you. For China's National Day, my father-in-law likes you, but my mother-in-law has nothing to say-strive for two words in their eyes.

This second word is more critical, respect.

Needless to say, you have to have parents in your eyes. Don't believe anything they say, "It's okay, I won't bother you." "I can do it myself." Even if he bothers you, you can't ignore it. Do not come back. You are like an uncle, where to put your parents.

If you do these two words, you will be close to success, but I'm not finished yet. If the most important point is missing, the previous work is equal to zero.

It is "pure", which is actually the hardest thing to say. To put it mildly, if you simply pretend, it will be exposed sooner or later, so if you are not a good bird (hypothetical sentence), no one will pay attention to you even if you dye your feathers in seven colors. Back to what I just said, don't do anything for your wife in front of them, so they will think you must be faking it. In fact, when they are away, they let their daughters work every day. Ask first, then do.

I'm a little tired ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ Let's just say so much.

Give it or not, I believe the landlord is a good young man with a conscience ~ ~ ~