After a girl from a good family gets married,

@ 嗱嗱嗱嗱嗱嗱嗱嗱嗱嗱: How to say it, I am also "married" to my husband. Our family is from the city, and our family has good economic conditions. My husband's family is from the countryside. At first my parents were very opposed to me and my husband, but I insisted on getting married. When I first got married, I thought I was happy because my family followed me for many reasons. Later, with the passage of time, my in-laws always felt that my family was rich, so I should help my in-laws unconditionally. After a few years of happy marriage, my husband and I had conflicts, especially after middle age. I really don't feel happy now. Ms. Xia Fengruge: I am happy when I don't talk about money, but when it comes to money, I feel that the so-called happiness before is just a cloud. When my husband and I got married, everyone laughed at me, "marrying" a poor boy with nothing, and said that I would be dragged down by my husband in the future. I didn't believe it then, but I believe it now. I am 40 years old. In our family, we are happy when we don't talk about money, but when it comes to money, my husband and his family will push me forward as if my money had fallen from the sky. If I can choose again, I will never let myself be a "married" woman. Fairy MengMeng: Actually, I think whether a woman is happy after marriage depends mainly on whether the man you marry loves you enough. I think I am very happy. I am 38 years old, but my husband still treats me like a child. My husband's family's economic conditions are not as good as mine, so I married my husband. Although my husband and I are poor after marriage, we are really happy. Maybe it seems plain to me is true! Although my husband has not let me live a rich life for so many years, he loves me very much. I think even though I am poor, I am happy with my husband. After a girl with a good family gets married, our current social culture tends to be based on the' right foundation' in marriage and love, and men are suitable for backward compatibility. But now it seems that there are not a few girls who are willing to "marry" out. A sentence often said by girls in the bureau: "Where you love to go, your heart will go." "He really loves me, so I don't care about the conditions." I believe that the men these girls met showed "true love for her" and gave them a full sense of security. To put it bluntly, if this man does not show "special love", "special sincerity" and "good to you", there is no reason for a girl who is better than him to choose him. Men can make up for the original gap between two people by increasing their pursuit and efforts. This is a point that I have emphasized many times. A man's kindness to you is not his advantage in essence, but your advantage. At the same time, girls may feel another sense of security, that is, if this man leaves you, it will be difficult for him to find someone better than you. The combination of the two is that his loss to you is far greater than your loss to him, so he usually shows more "cherish" you in his communication. The "motivation" for some girls to get married may be the inner peace brought by this "cherish" and "fear of losing". However, "marriage" is a long-term thing. If you just want to be "loved" or "safe", you must find out whether this kind of love and security is real and lasting. A girl from a good family accidentally saw it after she got married. I really hope my experience can teach unmarried girls. My husband and I have been together for almost four years. His family's conditions are average. His own business has a college degree. My father is a local deputy-level leader, and my mother didn't graduate from primary school to do small business. The local conditions in my home are good. I am a graduate civil servant, my parents have been leaders for many years, and my relatives around me are also very famous in the local area. What I like is my husband's free and simple nature. He is three years younger than me. Maybe my family education is strict, so I am particularly attracted to this little German shepherd boy. I got pregnant unexpectedly in opposition, and now I have been married for almost half a year. My father still won't let me go home without a wedding. In my husband's half-year life, especially during pregnancy, I felt the sadness of getting married. Buying all kinds of necessities for newborns is a big project and a lot of money. I believe everyone who has been pregnant knows. His mother always promised that he would buy all his grandson's things, and then gave me 5 thousand yuan and never said that again. It is conservatively estimated that I spent 30,000 to 40,000 on my own, plus what I bought for his son, and she deliberately ignored it. Money is really a big criterion for testing marriage. But unlike those who have been poor together, this is not empty talk. There is also the problem of concept. It's really humiliating to take his family out, especially her mother, who talks loudly everywhere and doesn't know how to say thank you. Etiquette education is just empty talk to her. I like gossiping with people every day … I really can't stand it. I'm falling apart. In addition, in education, they feel that their tens of thousands of rents can give their sons a good life, or rely on wages. I think my children should stay in a small place and let everyone enjoy their family. I have never seen the world, and I have no education. I really want a divorce now. Maybe your question is not as boring as mine, but as long as you get married, you will encounter conflicts between money and ideas, which is almost impossible to solve. Now I feel particularly inferior … if I have the chance to start over, I will never get married!