I have been in love with my boyfriend for three years, but I don't feel in love recently. Should we break up?

If there is no feeling of love, break up early, which is not good for each other.

Love is not right or wrong, but it should be purer. Love is love, and not love is not love. Being in love for three years is not too short. I think you went through a period of love, a period of running-in. Now should be a period of relatively stable feelings. At this time, if you feel that you don't love each other, the best choice is to break up, because if you drag on, you will feel bored and tired, and the other party will feel tired, which is a kind of torture for both of you and will also delay the other party's pursuit of true happiness.

But the premise of breaking up is that you must make sure that you really don't love each other. Sometimes we do have aesthetic fatigue to each other, and we feel that our love life is too dull to find the feeling of love in those days. You can try to get that feeling back a little bit, find some time to do something romantic with your partner, such as shopping, watching movies, traveling together, taking a walk in the place you love, and then give yourself some time to think calmly. If you still feel that you just don't love, then break up.

If you decide not to love, put the breakup on the agenda as soon as possible. There are not so many three years to squander in life. You can try to ask the other person how they feel about you at present, and then talk about your own thoughts. Not loving someone makes this relationship very sad. You should also let the other person know your mental state. A good farewell between two people can be regarded as a perfect ending for three years' relationship. Don't take a last look, so this relationship will become a joke and make each other hate each other.

In short, this is my personal view of feelings. There is nothing wrong with not loving someone, but you have to give yourself and the other person an explanation. The saddest thing about love is not that we slowly lose our feelings for each other when we get along, but that we continue to be tied together and suffer together when we clearly don't love each other.