Excuse me, can I change my shift like this?

If you want to change shifts, you must find a very good reason to change shifts. If you don’t have a good reason to change shifts, your situation will not change:

P. 1. The teacher in the top class is the same as the teacher in your class. You said that your teacher was not good to you. After changing the class, your teacher is still the same. How has the situation changed for you? What you fear most is that the teachers will think you are unsociable and will avoid your classmates in different classes. Then the teachers will think that the person who is stingy is you instead of the classmates who treat you badly. If the teacher has a bad impression of you, I think your situation may be even worse after the class change.

Secondly, your relationship with your classmates is not very good now. If you change classes, your relationship with them will be even worse, because they will have a deeper prejudice against you and they will think that you Betray them, and other classmates with whom you have an "okay" relationship will start to dislike you. The worst thing is that you don’t know any of the students in the top class, but your classmates know each other. After the class change, you will face even more pressure because your problems will not be solved after you change the class. , the problem still exists.

Third, if you choose to change from the ordinary class to the top class, think about what others will think? If you change from a top class to a poor class, maybe others won't mind, but if you change from an ordinary class to a top class, others will definitely deepen their prejudice against you. If you perform well in a top class, others will think more of you. If you change shifts for fame and fortune, or if you look down on their regular shifts and change shifts, more people will talk about you behind your back.

If you want to start over, changing schools is your only option. Changing classes will not solve your problem, because after changing classes, you will still see those teachers, and you cannot completely escape your current classmates. , how much can your situation change? Instead of avoiding these classmates who are not good to you, it is better to learn to deal with them. Facing them will also be very helpful for you to work in society in the future. Your classmates are not nice, stingy, often scold you, bully you, laugh at you, and exclude you. Such people are actually very unhappy behind the scenes, and they also face many problems and worries, but you don't know it. If they are happy, they will not bring pain to others.

Our brains often deceive us. A good example: A person was informed by his boss yesterday that his promotion had failed. When he returned to the office early this morning, he saw other colleagues. Some laughed at him with gloating, while others expressed sympathy. After a while, the boss called him to the office and told him that the company had decided to promote him after careful consideration. Other colleagues had known about this for a long time. He suddenly felt that those colleagues were not laughing at him or sympathizing with him. Why? Our brain often deceives us. It will choose to see what it wants to see and receive the message it wants to receive, regardless of external conditions and facts. In fact, your situation in the class is not as bad as you imagined, but your brain often deceives you. Your brain has some prejudices against your classmates, and it will start to blame everything that happens to you. Your classmates and teachers, maybe it's not so bad after all. If you want to live comfortably in their group, you must learn to analyze things from another angle. Only in this way will you not be deceived by your brain. For example: you hear your classmates laughing loudly behind your back. Laugh, don't immediately think they are laughing at you, think of other possibilities: maybe they are telling a joke, maybe they are laughing at someone else, etc.

Of course, your brain will not completely deceive you. Sometimes your classmates are indeed bullying you, and the way to deal with them is to learn to be a little confused. If you analyze your classmates too much or see them too clearly, you will be in pain. The truth of this world is painful. If you want to reduce the pain, don't think too much, don't pay too much attention to them, don't know too much about them, in short, just be confused and don't see them too clearly.

When you are in pain, think of people who are in more pain than you are, such as crime victims, people who have been abused, etc. Maybe you won’t feel that you are in too much pain. Instead, they will feel that these things are insignificant.

Cultivate more positive thoughts, be happy, and care more about others. In this case, good people, things, and things will resonate with you, and your classmates will definitely like you. If you are always unhappy and always thinking about your classmates If it is not good for you and your thoughts are negative, you will find that bad things often happen to you. This is because negative emotions are contagious. Have you ever tried to come home in a bad mood, and your family members will also be in a bad mood? What’s not good? Emotions are powerful. If you want good things to happen to you, you must cultivate good emotions and let others be infected with good emotions.

If the situation is really bad, you must come up with a good reason to change shifts. It is best to be able to say: "It is not your intention to change shifts, you are forced to change shifts."