Will life be very tiring if you have a sensitive personality?

Dazai Osamu: "People who are too sensitive will understand the pain of others, and naturally cannot be frank easily. The so-called frankness is actually violence."

Sensitive personality, in From a psychological perspective, it has a great impact on our own mental health. As long as there is a little "turbulence" in other people's emotions, especially negative emotions such as sadness, disappointment, and anger, everyone still doesn't know what's going on, and we will soon... aware.

After your personality becomes sensitive and considerate, you will hurt yourself and ignore your "own" intentions. Even others habitually ignore our "intentions" and take your "understanding" as a matter of course. You must give in and give as a matter of course. Otherwise, you will become the "bad guy" in the other person's eyes.

Sensitive people have strong emotional abilities and always consider other people's feelings first in interpersonal interactions. They are always afraid of being disliked or accidentally hurting others, so they walk on thin ice with fear and are very tired. Sensitive people will amplify negative emotions and will be secretly hurt for a long time because of other people's unintentional actions. If they do intentional actions, it will last even longer. It is indeed tiring. This kind of tiredness is especially reflected in love and marriage. I struggled with this emotion for a long time, and finally realized that the main reason was that I had not found a lifestyle that suited me.

People with sensitive personalities tend to amplify the negative emotions caused by events. Even small setbacks can make their hearts jolt for a long time

Finally

As long as you are selfish enough, you are not sensitive at all, because the life and death of others is none of your business...

As long as you are kind, you must be very sensitive, because if you step on an ant to death, you will put yourself in the ant's shoes. , and then consider the food chain and ecological niche