"My boyfriend fell in love with my bestie": What should I do if I encounter a bloody plot?

My boyfriend fell in love with my bestie, but I acted like a fool. At that time, there was indeed something strange about him, but I deliberately ignored it because I didn't want to believe that he would betray me. I kept convincing myself that "I am the one who is suspicious and thinks too much, and I should trust him." I was like an ostrich, burying my head in the sand. When I thought everything was over and raised my head again, I found that it was already too late and I had missed the best opportunity.

I regret it very much. If only I could be more proactive, brave, decisive, and vigilant, and deal with this problem as soon as possible, maybe I wouldn't be so passive now. I want to write out these signs that I once ignored. On the one hand, it is for myself to see, so that I can gain wisdom in my next relationship. On the other hand, it is for everyone to see. I hope that everyone will not be like me before. So stupid and cowardly.

Sign 1: My boyfriend will tell jokes, jokes, or make fun of my bestie in front of me. When he did this, I had a vague feeling that I was an outsider and that he didn't respect me. Maybe at that time, he had a crush on her, so he wanted to make her laugh.

Sign 2: I can feel that there is something unusual between them. There is an unnatural and ambiguous feeling between them. I can’t explain why, but I just have such a feeling. At the beginning, I blamed myself for having this feeling. I felt that I didn't trust them too much and was too suspicious. Looking back now, women's intuition and sixth sense are very accurate. I should have trusted my own intuition instead of trusting him.

Sign 3: My boyfriend will be more excited and active when my best friend is present. Looking back, he would intentionally or unintentionally ask me about things about my best friends. Often after I answered a question, he would continue to ask the next question. I have many female friends, but he never asks for other people's information, only hers. And only when a man is interested in a woman, will he be curious about everything about her.

Sign 4: My boyfriend will mention his best friend, but her best friend will never mention it to him, which seems a bit deliberate. Later, my best friend gradually became alienated from me, and she was not as close to me as before. Maybe she was clearly aware of her boyfriend's intentions at the time and felt guilty towards me; maybe she liked him in her heart and even accepted him, but she didn't want me to notice and deliberately avoided suspicion. In short, she must have known about it, but she just kept it from me.

Sign 5: My boyfriend likes his best friend’s posts in Moments. Maybe he is afraid that I will find out, so he doesn’t like them as soon as his best friend posts them, but waits for a while to do so. Click, but I click on every item. Of course he would also like my Moments updates, but he also added my other friends, but he did not like them. Maybe in his eyes, my best friend and I have the same status, but I am his real girlfriend, so what does my best friend mean to her?

Sign 6: Once, my boyfriend called me by the wrong name and called me my best friend. He was also stunned for a moment, although he immediately changed his name and said that he had said the wrong name in a hurry. . I was in a very bad mood and had a fight with him. He knew he was wrong and kept apologizing to me and even bought me a gift. For the sake of his sincerity, I suppressed the discomfort in my heart and did not pursue it. But after that, I obviously felt that he was more careful with me, and when he called me by name, he was not as casual and natural as before.

Sign 7: In fact, some of my friends also noticed something unusual. A few of my close friends even asked me sideways questions about whether my boyfriend was good to me, although these friends didn’t. They said it clearly, but now that I think about it, this is probably what they were referring to.

It turns out that there were so many signs indicating that "my boyfriend fell in love with my bestie", but why didn't I want to face it directly and only thought of covering up and escaping?