Life is a joke, don’t listen to it while crying

Yesterday, the closing ceremony of the tenth sprint camp came to an end.

After spending a month together online day and night, I saw that every partner successfully achieved the assessment goals, and it was time to say goodbye. Frankly speaking, I was still very emotional.

I remember that in a class taught by Professor Cheng Guangjian, I once learned this sentence: "Short-term high-frequency chat can produce ambiguity." Facts have proved that this is true, whether it is daily text communication or voice conferences, Well, we have frequent contact with each other because of this kind of form, and because of this frequency, I have personally experienced the whole process of one living soul after another facing life. Yes, not everything is smooth sailing for everyone. Who is not struggling due to the pressure of life?

Being an outstanding representative at the closing ceremony also gave me an opportunity to share, and I also took this opportunity to express my inner thoughts to several of my partners who have been together day and night, and urged them to keep moving forward. On the one hand, by continuing to work, I wish them smoother progress in their new journey, but more importantly, I want to say to them: life is a joke, don’t listen to it while crying.

In one month, I went from talking about many difficulties every day, being rejected, and having no self-confidence, to feeling relieved after achieving the goal, to being ecstatic. This is enough to show that when faced with the joke of life, if you give up , are scared, and you tell yourself no, then you really become a joke. If you are not convinced, try it, and face ups and downs again and again, even if it is just out of recklessness, then at least it is another It's possible. So don’t give up, pay attention to every little detail in the process, perfect it, don’t care about the results, you must know that even if you succeed, it is only once. In your life, is such success once enough? I believe you have the answer.

This month, I did hear some of my partners complain, and some of them cried bitterly because of my severe rebuke, and some were discouraged, but now think about it, what’s the use of all this? Can it play any positive, direct or indirect role in the process of achieving the goal? Obviously not, so why do these things? Is it the path you chose voluntarily? Now that you have chosen, don’t find it difficult. Even if you lose your teeth, bite it and swallow it. Of course, you can also choose to give up. There is nothing wrong with that. No one can interfere with your choice, but I want to remind you that if you give up, just give up. Don't regret it. After all, you didn't choose to give up just to achieve the purpose of regret. So whether you choose to continue facing it or stop it suddenly, you must bear the consequences and be responsible for your own choices.

Life is a joke, don’t listen to it while crying.

Should you let the people who care about you feel your warmth and move forward firmly, or should they accompany you to blame others because of your negativity, or should you want to become a "baggage" in the joke of life?

What do you want to do with your life?