My mother-in-law got divorced a few days after her remarriage, but I became a joke as soon as I left the house.

Her husband wants to divorce, how can a woman with low emotional intelligence win back her husband?

Women are prone to being emotional by nature, and they will express their happiness and unhappiness through actions and words. However, this kind of small Emotions can become a "little interest" when dating, but after marriage, they are particularly likely to cause family conflicts. Today, Teacher Gu Fei will bring you a case.

Xiaosi is a "composer" born in the 1990s. Although she is still very young, she has a very strong temper. Even she admits that her personality is the more "conservative" type. . For this reason, Xiaosi found a husband who was very kind to her. She originally hoped that her husband would tolerate her with love. Unfortunately, he could tolerate her for a while, but not for a lifetime.

After getting married, Xiao Si’s temper could not be improved. The two often quarreled. After the quarrel, Xiao Si, who had low self-esteem, would take the initiative to admit her mistakes and beg her husband for forgiveness. However, it didn't take long for Xiaosi to make a fuss over trivial matters again. The two of them struggled like this for a while, and finally ushered in a big explosion.

In this quarrel, Xiaosi took action and scratched her husband's face. The husband couldn't bear it and decided to divorce Xiaosi. Not only did he move out of the residence, but he also blocked her. He didn't even answer Xiaosi's WeChat messages or even his phone calls, as if he wanted to completely sever ties with Xiaosi. The panicked Xiaosi realized the seriousness of the problem and knew that he could no longer handle the problem this time. Therefore, Xiaosi sought help from Mr. Gu Fei, who had an emotional relationship.

Teacher Gu Fei first "took the pulse" of Xiaosi's mental state and pointed out that her emotional intelligence has always been very low, and she neither knows how to express her feelings correctly nor understand her husband's needs. In addition, although Xiaosi will seek help from family or friends whenever she has a problem, they are not professionals after all, and they often give meaningless advice such as "calm down", "have a good talk", and "reduce major issues to minor issues". This caused Xiaosi to make repeated mistakes for a long time and was unable to achieve real growth.

Although Xiaosi also knows that his emotional intelligence is low, he just can't find a way to improve it. This time, he let the professional teacher Gu Fei teach Xiaosi step by step, under the guidance of a complete set of self-improvement plans. , Xiaosi began to gradually learn how to communicate effectively with her husband and how to handle her emotions correctly, which were things that her best friends and family members had never taught her in the past.

After a month of counseling, the relationship between Xiaosi and her husband has been well repaired. Not only has her husband returned home, but they have also become very harmonious in getting along with each other, and even their sex life has become more comfortable. Harmonious.

In the follow-up visit, Xiaosi said that since she learned how to improve her emotional intelligence from Teacher Gu Fei, Xiaosi once again felt the sweetness of childhood sweetness from her husband when they first fell in love. .

Xiaosi’s success also reminds many women with poor emotional intelligence that when they encounter emotional problems, seeking help from best friends and family members can only play a role in venting their emotions. It is not helpful in improving their emotional intelligence and solving actual emotional problems. There is no substantial help, so professional problems still need to be solved by professionals.

Every successful case cannot be copied, because there are too many changes in each case, which will be counterproductive if not done well. Therefore, consultation with the Xia Yuan Shield emotional mentor before implementation and combined with the guidance of the emotional mentor can make the recovery smoother.