The son takes care of the children at home, and the mother-in-law is dissatisfied with finding a daughter-in-law theory. Daughter-in-law said who made your son incompetent. what do you think?

Many parents cling to old ideas, and they stubbornly believe that raising a family is a man's business. But now men and women are equal, women hold up half the sky, many women in life do better than men, and even more women support their families by themselves. It is natural for men to earn money to support their families, and it is natural for women to teach their children at home. But now times have changed, and more and more women shoulder the heavy responsibility of supporting their families. On the contrary, men play the role of the head of the family, which has also caused many parents' dissatisfaction. They think that a big man taking care of children at home makes people laugh, which also causes many family conflicts.

Marriage in Qixin needs the joint management of husband and wife. No matter who takes care of the children and supports the family at home, as long as they can live a good life, right? Is it a woman's duty to take care of children?

Wei He has been married for five years. They have a one-year-old daughter. Originally, the family of three had a good life, but the mother-in-law went to her son's house several times. Seeing her son taking care of her granddaughter at home alone, her mother-in-law became angry. She wants to be a seven-foot man and is willing to be a housewife. My mother-in-law was greatly dissatisfied and became more and more interested in Wei. Xiao Kai comes from the countryside and is an only child. His parents planted an acre of land and supported Xiao Kai by selling vegetables and fishing. His parents are ambitious, and Xiao Kai's parents are no exception. But Xiao Kai's ability is average. After graduation, I found a senior job with a monthly salary of 3000 yuan, and I can barely support myself.

To outsiders, the conditions in Xiao Kai are really average, with average appearance, low salary and poor family background. But at a friend's party, Xiao Wei met Xiao Kai and fell in love with Xiao Kai at first sight. They all said that it took Xiao Wei half a year to make Xiao Kai accept himself. When parents learned that their son had a capable girl, they were very happy and urged Xiao Kai to marry Xiao Wei home as soon as possible.

Later, I also took Wei home very photogenic, but they got married at that time. Considering the actual situation of Xiao Kai's family, Xiao Wei asked for a suite to marry him instead of a bride price, but the only requirement was that Xiao Kai hold a lively wedding, which Xiao Kai did.

In the past few years of marriage, Wei became more and more energetic, and later became a middle-level leader of the company with an annual salary of 200,000. This kind of income is great in a small county, but Xiao Kai has stagnated. Xiao Kai can't be blamed. After all, our ability is there, but Wei never complains. She thinks that as long as Xiao Kai is kind to herself, she can take good care of her family. Later, Wei gave birth to another daughter, and Wei took her to work after her daughter was one year old. Originally intended to let her mother-in-law take care of the children, Wei refused, because she was not at ease with her mother-in-law taking care of the children, and she was even more afraid that her daughter would catch some bad habits in the countryside. So Xiao Wei persuaded Xiao Kai to resign and take care of the children at home, because in Xiao Wei's view, Xiao Kai's salary is 3,000 yuan a month. It doesn't matter whether he goes to work or not, as long as he has high income and can support his family.

Xiao Kai took care of the children at home for a year, which went well, but this situation spread to her hometown. Everyone in the village pointed to her mother-in-law, saying that her son was incompetent and depended on women to support him. Now, how does a man take care of his children at home?

When the neighbors said this, her mother-in-law felt that she was unable to lift her head in the village and looked for Wei theory in an angry manner. Mother-in-law means that no matter whether Wei resigns or not, the children have to be taken care of by Wei, but Wei is busy with work and has no energy to take her daughter.

Regardless of these, the mother-in-law insisted on letting Wei take care of the children. Wei said: Who made your son incompetent? Now I raise this family. If I take care of the children, will your son drink northwest wind? Mother-in-law is a proud person. Her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are quarrelling with each other to take care of the children. Xiao Kai is in a dilemma. We all know that running a good family requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife. When one person makes money to support his family, the other person has to make sacrifices and take care of the children at home so that the other person has no worries.

Mother-in-law has to give up her daughter-in-law and children to save face, but can face be a meal? Daughter-in-law earns money for this family, why can't mother-in-law understand?