Education experts suggest: What if children always curse?

1. Affect language learning: Swearing is a low-level language, which can be blurted out without grammar and rhetoric, let alone syntax, and can cover a variety of meanings. Children can learn and even fall in love with it immediately after hearing it, and they can't concentrate on learning and improving their Chinese.

In fact, the negative impact of swearing on children is more than the above two points. Neurologists point out that the language ability of patients who have undergone left hemisphere resection will be seriously reduced, but many patients without left hemisphere can still swear. This is because the right hemisphere of the brain can handle the whole swearing system, and swearing is only a motor function, not a language function. This is equivalent to telling us that a child who is used to swearing may have a slow development of his left brain and affect his intellectual development. On the other hand, birds of a feather flock together. A child who loves swearing has a bad interpersonal relationship, and many good friends will gradually alienate him, which is very unfavorable to his spiritual growth.

In fact, children don't understand the meaning of "swearing". Out of curiosity, they imitate adults. At this time, some parents were shocked and immediately gave corporal punishment. He is forbidden to say it. Some parents think it's fun to scold their children, so forget it; Some parents are used to it and ignore it. These three situations not only can't solve the problem, but will strengthen children's use of such words.

I suggest parents try the following two ways:

1. When parents hear their children swearing, don't panic, scold angrily or ignore them. Calm down, squat down, be serious but not fierce, and talk to your child in a gentle tone. For example:

"Son, what you just said is very ugly. Do you know what I'm saying? "

"This is what adults say. You are a child. You can't say this word, you know? "

"Do you want to be looked down upon by others?"

"That's right! This is a good boy. "

The hardest thing for parents to do is not to get angry. If you are angry, the children won't listen to you. Other parents like to tell the truth to their children, which makes them impatient, but loses the effect of education.

2. Train children to use "humorous" words instead of "swearing". Let the children find that if you speak humorously, even if you scold someone, the other person will not be angry and even praise him. For example:

Tell your child that you can say, "You said yesterday that you would pay me back today-was it April 1 day yesterday?"

If the other party knows that April 1 day is April Fool's Day, they will immediately understand what you mean.

Of course, children are still young, and "humor" requires a high level of language, but we might as well give it a try, so that children will have a hard goal and will not swear again.

Many parents often ignore their children when they are busy at work and interact with them irregularly. In this way, children will deliberately swear to attract attention because they think their parents don't love them. Therefore, the most effective way to prevent children from forming the habit of swearing is to give them at least half an hour every day. Half an hour, tell jokes, play small games, read story books together, or chat. In short, do whatever you want, make children feel happy with their parents, and don't imitate adults to swear.