Too affectionate, others treat you as a joke.

Generally speaking, people's hearts are sinister. Because of this, if you are too easy to devote yourself to someone, then the other person will really not cherish their friendship. Therefore, you should carefully choose the investment of love. It is extremely painful to be betrayed by feelings, so you should be more rational and consider the problem from the following aspects.

1 Generally speaking, if you are really too kind to a person, then your love will be too cheap at this time, so you should control the cost you pay. In fact, for us, many times, if we are too emotional, it will make the other party feel that their love is very cheap, and because of this, we will fall into a passive position, so we must learn to think rationally and control our own input costs.

2. Many times, if you are too single-minded, you will be used by the other party. Whether you are regarded as a dispensable person by the other party is also very harmful to yourself. In fact, I will find that if I am really nice to a person, it is easy for the other person to think that I am a fool, and it will also make me a dispensable person, so it is also a great harm to myself.

3, many times being betrayed by someone you like is very uncomfortable in itself, which will make you lose hope in life. If you really regard each other as the core of your life, then understanding each other's views on yourself at this time will make you have a subversive understanding, make you lose the fun of life, make you lose a lot of happiness, and make you fall into unprovoked despair.

In fact, for us, many times, if we are too involved in the adult world, we will be very passive. Because of this, we should learn to re-examine this perceptual and rational investment, so as to avoid being used by others.