What is the chat mode of straight men?

When chatting with girls, many straight men always like to ask girls questions one after another. They try to avoid embarrassment in chatting by asking questions, for fear that there is no topic and silence will be caused.

But such constant questioning is actually asking for value, which will make girls feel that you have a strong sense of demand. Especially when the other party has not established a good impression on you, it will only make the other party feel bored. You know, she has no obligation to answer your question. Thus being hated by girls.

2. Overshow yourself

There are also some straight boyfriends who are particularly self-centered and always want to show off themselves. As a result, it leads to over-display. Every sentence is what I am, and almost every sentence begins with "I".

You know, continuous self-centered communication will make girls feel very tired. Because girls can't get a word in, chatting becomes your stand-up comedy, and you rob girls of their words. This is not interaction at all, and you don't care about girls' feelings. It's strange not to be hacked by girls. Showing yourself is indeed a kind of value display to a certain extent, but over-showing yourself is a very low-level behavior.

3. Cross-line topic

Many straight men think that when chatting with girls, they should talk about everything and treat their anecdotes and the other person's shortcomings as jokes, which not only lowers their status, but also makes the other person very embarrassed.

Although, two people should get along sincerely. But this can't be an excuse for you to trample on and ignore the current relationship stage at will. The depth of the topic is determined according to the relationship stage. To put it bluntly is to cross the line, and to put it shallowly is to treat yourself as an outsider.

So be sure to control the depth of your topic and stop as soon as possible when you cross the line. You can't talk about each other's love history with a girl you just met, because it's beyond your love stage.

4, aimless chat

Many straight men like to chat aimlessly, thinking that they will have feelings if they talk to girls too much. However, actually, a girl's patience with a man is limited. If your chat is aimless and rambling and doesn't play any positive role in upgrading your relationship, then girls' patience will soon be exhausted by you.

Especially high-quality girls, they meet more boring men and their patience is more limited. Therefore, chatting must have a process and rules. If you don't do the right thing at the right stage, you will be one step closer to GAMEOVER.

5. If you are too good, don't accept it

This problem is not only for straight men, but also for many friends when chatting with girls. You know, every time you interact with girls, there will always be a peak in girls' mood, and the best time for girls' mood is the peak of this peak. Then after that, the girl's mood can only slowly decline. If you keep talking with the girl in your arms, it is very likely that your original goodwill will be worn away by you.

Please remember, when you feel that you can't continue to make girls more enthusiastic, please leave in time and don't continue to fight. She has a wonderful feeling of chatting with you this time, and will naturally look forward to the next round of chatting. If you screw up this chat experience, there is basically no next time.