What is the joke that boyfriends often tell?

Just because your boyfriend says you are stupid doesn't mean you are really stupid. In other words, he called you stupid because he thought you were cute. Only in this way will he have more desire to protect you.

First of all, it is not entirely unreasonable that people in love have zero IQ. People in love will become emotional in thinking and ways, so your boyfriend says you are stupid, probably because your way of thinking may have changed a lot after you fall in love, and you will think your boyfriend is cute because you are not so considerate. In fact, when he said this, you also expressed his desire to protect and take care of you.

Secondly, only people who really like you will spend time and energy teasing you. He said you were stupid, probably to make you angry on purpose, and then he would coax you and give him a chance to please you. In fact, boys are sometimes very strange. You are gentle with him, and sometimes he feels bad. He likes you to scold him and hit him. Only in this way will you feel that you attach great importance to him, so he will always do some strange things.

One of my college roommates, she and her boyfriend are like this. Her boyfriend always thinks she is stupid and slow. Once my roommate was very angry. She took it seriously and broke up with her boyfriend, saying that since she thought I was stupid, you should find a smart one. Her boyfriend was actually shocked when he heard this sentence. Because her boyfriend likes him, he teased her so much to attract his girlfriend's attention. But this method is not suitable for all couples, so when the other person begins to doubt your feelings for him, you must reflect on whether this method is used too much and make the other person feel insecure for a while.