Actually, I'm curious why the wheels won't turn to the speed of the plane when it lands, so it won't hurt the wheels so much.

Because there is no power device on the wheels of the plane, only the brake device. When taking off, the engine of the plane ejects air, which drives the wheels to rotate, thus driving the plane to fly. However, if the power device is installed on the wheels to reduce friction, the cost will increase. Because there are many wheels on an aircraft, the take-off weight will increase, so it is better to consume the wheels economically.