The joke of running away after the earthquake.

I think: If the boy left the girl and ran away first during the earthquake, the girl would forgive him. In the Sichuan earthquake a few years ago, among a group of friends cheering for the rescue work, I occasionally brushed this "10,000-circle help-seeking article". "The earthquake shook badly. The boyfriend grabbed his clothes and rushed out the door. Now I'm locked out. When should I let him in? " Comments include the Haha Party, those who share the same feelings, and those who suggest not to split in the New Year. Then the problem is coming.

If you are in danger, your partner will run first. Should I forgive ta? Most people's brain circuits are like this. The more dangerous the moment, the more they can express their love for you. Misfortune tests the sincerity of friends. This question reminds me of a movie I saw two years ago, The Tourist directed by Ruben Ostlund. It can be said that it has changed my view on marriage. I don't think I can accept men's careful calculation. Of course, this was a stereotype at that time.

Subjectively, if a person likes to be careful, he must be a stingy person. Before I met a friend of mine, he lived a special life. Even if he just goes to the supermarket to buy a pack of toilet paper, he can quickly choose one of several cost-effective brands. He also took out several light bulbs from his girlfriend's bedroom without affecting the lighting, saying that he could save at least 2.5 degrees of electricity every day. He is not the kind of person who wants to save everything.

He just insists on the idea of not wasting. I don't think there is anything wrong with him. From the previous prejudice to the present understanding and acceptance, this is a change that I have never experienced and never thought of. Back to the theme of this article, "I can't see the real feeling of the crisis, I only see that the first reaction is that cowards run away." How should I face it? My answer now is that I will forgive him. I can only say "I think". I will.

This forgiveness represents an understanding, and I don't blame him. I will predict in my mind that I am not important to him, so it is normal for his subconscious to let him run away. In the adult world, one thing should be allowed, that is, others don't love you or don't love you very much. If I still want to go with him, I will choose to forgive him because I don't forgive him. what should he do ？ Apologize for death? I am willing to express my grievances and sadness to him, and I am willing to listen to his explanation afterwards and choose to believe him. So I think, if the boy left the girl and ran away first during the earthquake, the girl should forgive him.