Why do men have to save private money?

Many friends are justified, and men just want to save money. The implication is that men can't live without private money.

I'm afraid the history of private money has been difficult to verify, but there is an indisputable fact-in a long historical period, "private money" used to be exclusively for women, and it was the aggrieved kannika nimtragol's means of survival by saving money to help her family or save one hand for herself. Now that men are reduced to saving private money, there is nothing to talk about. I don't know whether to be glad for the progress of society or sad for men.

There are no more than two reasons why men save private money. First, women live too carefully and manage their money too tightly, so that men can't even meet their normal expenses, especially in scenes. Men have to do this to save face. Second, under the guidance of the theory that "men become bad when they have money", many women block the economy in order to control men, leaving you with malicious intentions and no money. As we all know, you can control your money, but you can't control your heart; There are policies on the top and countermeasures on the bottom. Of course, every family has its own specific situation, and there are various reasons for saving private money, but these two are the most important and common.

Due to historical reasons, most families in China follow the patriarchal system, parents practice economic monopoly and lack family economic democracy. This is the social reason for the prevalence of private money. In the past, men were the masters of the family, and economic power was in the hands of men. Saving private money has become a woman's patent. Nowadays, women's social status has been improved as never before, and many families are headed by women. Men naturally joined the "private money family".

With the change of society, the management mode of family economy is increasingly diversified, and the AA economic mode among young people is one of them. Property notarization before marriage, after marriage, husband and wife spend their own money, and public expenses are funded by mutual agreement-the husband and wife settle accounts clearly. It's very trendy, but it's hard for most people to accept.

I advocate democratic management mode, that is, both husband and wife adhere to the principle of "equality, mutual trust and freedom" and manage their finances democratically. Equality-no matter how much money husband and wife earn, their position in family economic management should be completely equal, and there should be no question of who is dependent on whom and who has the final say; Mutual trust-husband and wife should trust each other, do not doubt or prevent, and run a small family wholeheartedly; Freedom-On the premise of equality and mutual trust, the economic activities of husband and wife are free. "Freedom" embodies respect, understanding, trust and love. Of course, any freedom is not absolute, and the self-discipline of both husband and wife is also very important.

My family is basically a democratic management model, and neither my wife nor I have the habit of saving private money. All the money in the family is managed by my wife, and I hardly ask; My wife also gave me full freedom to spend money and never interfered. I don't have to worry about a lot of expenses. My wife has taken care of them. Since we got married, there has never been any contradiction in spending money.

On the surface, the phenomenon of private money is an economic problem, but in fact it is a crisis of confidence. It is the lack of understanding, respect and trust between husband and wife-at least I think so.

Money is for people. People cannot be influenced by money.