Don't want to have a second child soon.

Fertility has always been the focus of our attention. From the previous family planning to the later opening of the second child, and now some experts suggest letting go of the third child, it can be said that our concern for fertility has never decreased.

It is worth mentioning that in the past, most of us were thinking about having more children. At present, on the issue of fertility, we mostly consider eugenics or even late childbearing. However, in this regard, although some experts have proposed to let go of triplets, few people can implement them. Even the expert's advice makes many people feel a little ridiculous.

In fact, the birth problem has always been a headache for people from all walks of life. Nowadays, families with late marriage, dink families and singles can't say much, but it's definitely nothing new. In fact, on the issue of fertility, some experts have suggested "letting go of triplets". However, many netizens ridiculed this and even said, "Is the second child not enough for the third child?" Just kidding. But why do many people feel a little ridiculous after the experts put forward this suggestion? In fact, it is not difficult to understand when you think about it.

Practically speaking, for many ordinary people in working families, they are very worried about getting married, not to mention having children in the future. In many new first-tier cities and even second-and third-tier cities, the average salary of many office workers is between 3,000 and 4,000 yuan per month. And it doesn't include renting a house and eating and drinking. To put it more bluntly, some office workers can't reach such an ordinary salary.

Secondly, a person's marriage age can be roughly divided into three stages: around 23 years old, around 27 years old and around 32 years old. People who get married around the age of 23 are probably married by their parents. People who get married around the age of 27 are mostly social bears who have just graduated from college to work hard. People who get married around the age of 32 are also people who have just improved. However, no matter what stage people are in, families need to pay about 400,000 yuan for old-age care.

Finally, if you are lucky enough to get married. Then there are generally three problems, the first is to repay the loans of relatives and friends, the second is to repay the loans of the house, and the third is the expenses of the wife and children. If these three problems are not handled well, they can really crush a family. Therefore, although some experts suggested letting go of triplets, there were not many people who supported them, and even many people thought it was a bit ridiculous.

Third, some suggestions about marriage.

I don't know if you have noticed that many people are relatively free in marriage now. However, the expensive bride price can overwhelm three generations of house prices and car problems, which are the reasons why many people are reluctant to mention marriage. There are even some people who parted ways because of some things after giving the bride price. In the end, the lawsuit was not worth the loss.

In fact, we should pay special attention to today's marriage problems. This is not only responsible for those children, but also for both parties to the marriage. First of all, be sure to lead an honest and clean life before marriage. Especially for girls, we must leave a bottom line for ourselves. Secondly, when you get married, you must discuss the bride price and garage with each other safely. Finally, in the life together, we must be humble to each other, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the relationship between father and son must be handled well.

"The second child is not enough for three children?" Although many people don't particularly agree with the expert's suggestion. However, the reasons are also deeply felt. After all, from our work, when can we buy a house with a salary of three or four thousand a month? As far as our marriage is concerned, the high bride price can make many people flinch.