What will you do in the face of midlife crisis?

I wish everything goes well this year, become the person I want to be the most, and work hard for my dream.

1. Learn to analyze contradictions

How to struggle, the first thing to do is to analyze contradictions and find out what the main contradiction is and what the secondary contradiction is. A person's energy and time are limited, so most of his energy should be used to solve the main contradiction, and the secondary contradiction is in a subordinate position. When the principal contradiction is solved, the secondary contradiction will also change.

When a man makes money and his career is successful, he will find that his wife has become gentle and many contradictions have disappeared. Then the success of the career is the main contradiction for men, and the accusation against his wife is a secondary contradiction. Grasp the main contradiction and don't dwell on the secondary contradiction. Always obsessing over small contradictions will only consume your energy, and the problem will not be solved fundamentally.

2. Quantitative change causes qualitative change

Everything has to start. Doing is the beginning of quantitative change. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. If you have an idea, you must act. Many people think a thousand ways before going to bed, but they still wake up a thousand ways. This is the normal state of many people. If you want to succeed, you must break this normal state and take the first step bravely.

The qualitative change of a thing needs quantitative change, but quantitative change does not necessarily lead to qualitative change. Many people have worked hard all their lives, but they may not get the desired results, because it is not in line with the development of things. Whether things can change quantitatively depends on whether they conform to the direction of progress and the trend of history. It is impossible to make a qualitative leap by reversing.

A thief was caught in a residential area in Chengdu. He found that the thief's notebook was full of stealing points, drew a road map and wrote many words of encouragement. Although diligent, but in the wrong direction, the final result is imprisonment.

Step 3 be flexible

The development of things has never been Ma Pingchuan's, but tortuous, just like Panshan Road up the mountain. We should realize that the future is bright and the road is tortuous. We should have enough perseverance and tenacity to keep growing and changing, then success will be closer and closer.

Make sure that there is no problem in the basic life of yourself and your family.

People in their 40 s and 50 s have elderly parents to support, and most of their children are unmarried, so there are many places to spend money and they are under great economic pressure. In this case, it is very important to maintain the stability of economic sources. At present, if you have a work unit, you must cherish your post and don't leave your job easily. If you don't have a job at present, don't rush to invest and start a business. As we all know, the current economic situation has a failure rate of 99%. Facing the middle-aged crisis, no matter how big the economic pressure is, you can't rush to the hospital and start a business with your family's living expenses. That is death.

So when people reach middle age, it's better to be realistic! If you can work, get a job first and earn some living expenses. If you can't find a suitable job, try to do a small business to support your family first. As for making a lot of money by starting a business, don't worry, keep it in mind. There will be plenty of opportunities in the future, and staying in the green hills is not afraid of burning firewood.

Enhance the sense of hardship, plan ahead, and be mentally prepared before starting a business.

Whether we like it or not, today's society is changing with each passing day, and we have unconsciously entered the era of information and intelligent mobile Internet. It may be hard for us middle-aged people to accept. If we are just content with the status quo, do not strive for progress, and always stick to the rules, it will only make our predicament and crisis bigger and bigger.

What are we still discussing? This is a joke. Therefore, whether you are working hard in the workplace or starting your own business, you must have a strong sense of urgency, plan ahead, take the initiative to learn new knowledge, understand new things, and keep up with the trend of historical development. Only in this way can we succeed in starting our own business.

Never forget stability in development, and never forget development in stability.

This sentence is the famous saying of Mr. Li Ka-shing, the richest Chinese, and it is also the core secret of Mr. Li's great success in business and entrepreneurship all his life. In the face of the crisis of middle age, if we have been able to ensure the basic life of ourselves and our families, and have made psychological preparations before starting a business, then we can try to start a business. When starting a business, you must keep in mind what Mr. Li said, develop steadily, start small first, and don't be eager for success and insatiable. Gradual and steady development is the king.

On the contrary, when we have developed to a certain scale, we should not be too conservative, and we should not forget to develop while being steady. But at present, it is mainly stable, because I can't afford to lose!

Last but not least, don't forget to take care of our health. We are all the pillars of the family. No, but he was dead before he could conquer. That would be a tragedy! We are all adults, so I won't go into details. In short, it is normal for people to be stressed in middle age, and it is no big deal. We should be brave enough to turn pressure into motivation, work hard and develop steadily. Then I believe we will succeed. Although we can't be the richest man, we will never worry about lack of money again!