Relatives love to gossip and embellish things out of thin air. It's so annoying. What should I do?

What others say is someone else's business, but your own behavior can be decided by yourself. As long as you walk and sit upright, the closest people believe that these are all fake. No matter what they say, things made out of nothing have no practical basis. After a long time, they will collapse.

Even so, if you are still disgusted, then give the following three suggestions to solve the problem.

First: strong response, face to face confrontation, this is the best policy.

One should control his words and deeds, but some people like to make things out of nothing and watch other people's jokes. Most of these people eat hard and don't eat soft. No matter how many good things you say, please don't gossip, they will still go their own way. Don't give this kind of person a three-point face when he holds his breath and communicates with this relative in a friendly way, but he doesn't agree. Be strong, tell your relatives clearly, and stop talking nonsense, or you will be at your own risk!

This method can only have short-term effects. It can solve the problem to a certain extent, but under strong pressure, there will be a rebound. It may be made up in a more violent way after a while.

Second: Deal with a man as he deals with you. This is China's strategy.

It's boring for relatives to gossip behind their backs. In this case, let this relative feel misunderstood, made out of nothing, and arranged. In daily life, we should seize the problems of our loved ones and start spreading them to others, not too deliberately. We should spread the gossip of relatives in the form of daily communication, with a wide range, preferably among the people who communicate with relatives daily. This way can't be rushed, it takes time to accumulate. If you are eager to achieve success, the effect will be greatly reduced. As for how long it will take to let people around relatives know about it, some people began to verify the facts and deliberately asked the disgusting relative. That depends on the extent and speed of the problem. After the goal was achieved, the relative felt misunderstood because of gossiping, and I'm afraid he would never gossip about others again.

Although this method is immediate and effective. But we are not like relatives. Therefore, this method should be used with caution. Of course, when you are really angry, you should use it.

Third: rumors stop at the wise, which is the best policy.

The gossip spread by relatives through embellishment is not true at all. People who know you will naturally not misunderstand you. People who don't know you should care what they think. If faced with such a problem, everything is entangled and everything is concerned, which is not only tired, but also worse.

Therefore, when gossip spreads, as a smart person, cut off contact with such relatives and give them no chance to spread gossip. At the same time, look at yourself. If you have it, you will encourage yourself to change. Strive to improve your taste and pursuit. The level has gone up, and relatives are no longer qualified to gossip. Solving the problem from the root is the best policy.