If you have a wife who is too strong, what is the usual ending of marriage?

When I say strength, I don't mean strength with ideas, opinions, abilities and personalities.

It means overbearing, uncompromising, regardless of the feelings of others, self-centered everywhere, because a little thing is aggressive and aggressive. In other words, he is very controlling and always wants to hold people firmly in his hand!

In fact, the stability and harmonious development of everything in the world have specific trajectories and laws behind them, which complement each other and a certain balance cannot be broken.

Marriage is the same, no matter which side is too strong, it will destroy a certain balance between husband and wife, making this relationship no longer equal!

A sentence often mentioned:

If men are the pillars of a family, then women are the pillars of a family! ?

In a family, women are often the core. To a great extent, it directly determines the temperature of a family and leads the trend and future of a family.

As the old saying goes, a husband values his wife first. A good wife has fewer disasters, but a dutiful son forgives his father. ?

The wife is the real noble in a man's life! That kind of real enrichment does not come from women's pleasure, but it certainly does not come from women's control, but a kind of mutual respect and love based on mutual benefit!

Many people know that when two people are together, once they appear? Yin flourishes while Yang declines? The situation will bring devastating blows to the family. So what exactly does this blow mean?

What happens when the wife is too strong in marriage? Three possibilities, alert the world!

First, the husband is getting weaker and weaker!

Strong women, who generally don't care about anyone, always impose others' wishes on themselves, satisfy their own selfish desires, and tend to deny and belittle others.

In this kind of woman, men must not find a sense of existence and value.

There are two possibilities, either a woman touches a man's bottom line, and he feels deprived of his basic rights as a human being, so he stands up and resists.

And then he showed up? One mountain can't accommodate two tigers? The situation will inevitably lead to frequent disputes and contradictions, and even frequent fights. If this is the case, it usually won't last long. Even if you don't get divorced, your life will be in a mess, because the family is not harmonious and everything will not be happy.

In another case, what do men do for? Family harmony? The overall situation, blindly lower their bottom line, blindly tolerate women's push your luck, in the long run, men's personality and soul will gradually lose, becoming an existence without opinions, responsibilities and responsibilities.

It is tantamount to falling into a vicious circle. From beginning to end, men compromise and pursue perfection. Don't you know that compromise and perfection are never really complete?

There is no way, a person will only become more and more cowardly from the moment he loses himself. Such a marriage is just a man's flattery, there is no love at all, and there is no temperature at all!

Second, affect the child's life!

Never underestimate the influence of family background on children. Very subtle. Very subtle. It seems that the influence of bit by bit is irrelevant, but when accumulated together, a drop of water wears the heart!

You know, children are immature when they are young, and they will imitate and learn from adults.

Also, his thoughts and feelings are immature, and some ideas instilled at this time are directly printed in his bones. Even if it is not directly instilled, the environment and atmosphere in which children grow up are indirectly instilled.

Once a child grows up, the thoughts formed are deeply rooted and accompany him all his life.

In every child's life, the mother is the most important person, and both the three views and emotions should come directly from the mother.

So in a family, if the mother is too strong, it will inevitably go to two extremes. Coupled with her mother's personality and temper, the girl became as strong and overbearing as before.

Then when I grow up, it is easy to be attracted by a man like dad, and only such a man can accept her.

Similarly, if it is a boy, then his character and temper will become as timid as his father, and he will lose the glory and responsibility of a man from an early age. It's easy to be attracted to women like my mother when I grow up.

In a family, if both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are equally strong, it must be enter the dragon. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very tense, and finally it virtually destroys the family's fortune and wealth.

Third, my life is very poor!

Strong women must not feel love and warmth, or they simply don't give others a chance to love them.

This kind of life will live in complaining and full of negative energy. The less you feel love, the more extreme and paranoid you will be, thus ruining your life.

I don't know if you believe it or not! A strong woman will bring disaster to the family or men invisibly.

After all, women are also a member of this family. No matter what happens to a family or a man, she can't escape and is bound to be implicated and influenced.

Usually it's not superstition, life will really get harder and harder.

In addition, people are animals that seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and no one wants to get close to such a strong and negative woman, even children, parents and spouses.

Because there is no way to get along, over time, a strong woman will become a loner.

Especially in old age, life will only get worse. Everyone else is full of children and grandchildren, and she has only envy and silent regret behind her back.

Even normal communication was a problem. How can we get along together? Without normal communication, there will be no harmonious relationship!

Generally speaking, a strong woman will bring the above three hazards and consequences!

In fact, we can be strong outside, including our careers, but we must not bring our strength home. Looking for a strong woman means that you can't recognize yourself and treat marriage and family with a correct attitude.

Everyone is the same, it is an equal relationship. No matter what the relationship is, respecting other people's thoughts, feelings and bottom line is the premise of getting along.

Everyone has his own ideas, and even husband and wife can't control and force others' wishes.

When we are together, we don't get along well. Talking about love and temperature at this time is simply a big joke. You can't just treat yourself as an individual, but treat others as individuals.

Don't always want to be the boss, be more tolerant of others and yourself.

When couples are together, they should respect each other first, then understand each other, and finally fall in love. Later, I discovered that a life with love is a complete life, not only to understand love, but also to love!