What do you think of your ex's wedding?

Although both past lives and old love are caused by karma, there are also differences between affectionate, judgmental and judgmental creatures in previous lives.

Those ex-husbands who get along with each other for a short time, get along well and get away well, and escape from the net, it is not bad to go to his wedding scene to have a show and see what his final destination is like. When you shake hands with the new people around you, you may also have some resonance of mutual appreciation:

"We have all set foot in the same ocean of men and climbed the same mountain of women. I once gave up halfway. Fortunately, there are successors now, comrades, you should make persistent efforts! "

And those exes who are deeply involved in it, love and hate intertwined, and have never been married face to face, even if you pretend to be generous and go to the party happily, you may not really be able to really bless them.

Imagine that the master of ceremonies at the scene is trying to stir up emotions, and the background music seems to tell a touching and beautiful love story.

Memories of the past flitted through my mind, casting shadows in the middle of the lake like birds flying on the horizon. You are in tears, but you are worried about your gaffes, so you have to be on pins and needles and have mixed feelings in your heart. At the moment, I am not so much attending a wedding as attending an Oscar-level performance.

Of course, this problem also has a time point. Assuming that every relationship is sincere and unforgettable, then after all relationships, it will be painful for a while. After all, the disintegration of any connection is a lost process. From avoiding changing face to getting up again, everyone needs different time. If the opposite of love is forgetting rather than hatred, then forgetting is far longer than love. For those men and women who have not yet reached the immunization period, it will be very tormenting to be moved by the scene and miss the past under such circumstances.

Putting it down is a good thing. If you repeatedly confirm that you have reached the safety period in the past, you decide to congratulate gracefully as if nothing had happened. As a newcomer's predecessor, it's hard not to compare himself with his successor.

One of my girlfriends once expressed her struggle after being invited by her predecessor:

"In fact, I really want to congratulate his family with dignity, say hello when I walk past his friends, clink glasses with everyone, have a good meal, and applaud when the MC announces the centenary. Say something decent and auspicious when toasting, and play a little joke with the bride by the way. But I'm afraid I can't control myself.

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Yes, people who used to be far away are far away now.

Who doesn't want to look back and smile when turning around, leaving a generous and decent back, and your heart has really reached the realm of calm springs.

But when it comes to inviting you to the wedding, it is also worth pondering.

If it is a sudden move after breaking up, the wedding is probably a banquet. You can't help but go there mercilessly, but when you get there, you may find that you have been placed in the position of the groom's predecessor or the bride's predecessor. When you look at each other instantly, you may meet a rival in love who digs a corner.

So after receiving such an invitation from your predecessor, you'd better send him a short message directly:

"I'm sorry, I'm too busy recently. Wait a minute, I will definitely go next time. "

Attending other people's weddings is nothing more than expressing blessings and maintaining interpersonal relationships. If you have to wear a mask to deal with it properly, why go?

In fact, it is really difficult to define the meaning of old love in our life.