What is a fool?

If you look carefully, you will find that those who are proud of the spring breeze in real life, those who are really powerful, are all "lively" masters. They are good at observing words and deeds, can understand the mystery of being a man, and easily win the respect of others and social recognition. Those who are not "intelligent" or even "stupid" often get along badly, failing not only in their careers but also in their lives. Here are five manifestations of a person's lack of "mind"!

First, people don't look at each other, don't know how to read, and often eat dumb losses.

Being a conscientious person is a necessary skill, and people who don't have this skill tend to suffer from dumb losses. Today's society is extremely complicated and changeable, among which the most complicated, fastest changing and most difficult to see through should be the human heart, which is also an unpredictable statement. It is difficult to know people's hearts, and the difficulty is that it is difficult for you to see through a person. In fact, it is not only the performance of being a man's mind, but also a profound knowledge to observe people in life, imperceptibly and invisibly. As long as we study hard and experience hard, we can fully master it.

Second, the edge is sharp, and I don't understand the truth of being a low-key person.

Edge is the most effective weapon to stimulate others. If you look closely at those people around you who are poor in interpersonal relationships, it is not difficult to find that they know how to be low-key regardless of their skills. On the contrary, those who are capable and sharp-edged often bring disaster to themselves and are considered to be the most careless. The sound of earth-shattering is endless, and the elephant is invisible. People with real strength naturally don't want to live too long, but they know that the truth of "shooting the first bird with a gun" and "the wood in the forest is beautiful, and the wind will destroy it" will never show its edge.

Third, I am outspoken and think I am straightforward.

In interpersonal communication, it is natural for people to be eloquent and gushing. But if you don't say anything, it's easy to spill the beans and say the wrong thing, which is also difficult to remedy. Nonsense may not necessarily come from your heart, but it will often make others have a bad influence on you. Therefore, you can be outspoken, but you should also pay attention to "taboos" and not be outspoken. Otherwise, it is the performance of the most lack of mind. It would be even more foolish to disappoint others or screw things up because they are outspoken.

Fourth, if something goes wrong, you will be stuck and not flexible.

When we do something, if the situation is unfavorable to us, if we continue to push hard, it is likely to be frustrated and even lead to irreparable disaster. At this time, we should consider how to be flexible and muddle through. Once you have made a decision, you must make a decisive decision and never drag your feet. This is a major manifestation of our willingness to do things. As the saying goes, "water does not rot, but people live." As the saying goes, "change makes sense, and general rules last for a long time." If you know how to be flexible and don't get into a dead end, such people will not easily fall into an unavoidable predicament and an inescapable desperate situation.

Five, there is no principle and bottom line, which is the most ruthless embodiment.

A person, without principles and bottom lines, seems to live without constraints, which is actually the greatest embodiment of "simplicity". It is easy for people to give up their own principles and bottom line, but it can also be said that they have been struggling to persist. But just because you can persist, you will definitely walk in front of people with the same goals as you and eliminate those mediocre people, so that you can finally enjoy the joy and pleasure of reaching the peak of your life.