I have a boy I like, but I don't know if he likes me. How can I judge?

1. Read his body language. It is very important to see whether a boy likes you and to what extent, and to see body language. Interestingly, body linguists believe that women can express their affection for men through about 52 body languages, while men only express their affection for women in about 10. [1] If you think so, things will be much easier, right? Of course, you still need to know what details to observe and make sure you are not romantic-that would be embarrassing.

Let's see what body language can be used for reference:

He always looks at you. He even raises his eyebrows when he looks at you (this action will only last 1/5 seconds! )。 Besides, he may not realize that he has been watching you.

He always wants to be close to you. Being close to the opposite sex is a strong signal of love.

Look at the direction of his hands, feet and legs. If it's towards you, then subconsciously he may like you.

He began to pay attention to his image. He began to straighten his tie, straighten his shirt, flatten his hair, or tidy his shoelaces. This is the same reason that the male bird shows his prestige when courting the female bird!

Look at his sitting posture. If his sitting posture is full of masculinity, then he may want to impress you in this way.

If he likes you, you will find that he seldom turns his back on you, and even looks at you from time to time. His shoulders droop when he is around you, which proves that he cares about what you say. If he intentionally shakes his shoulder at you while sitting, he must be interested in you.

2. Pay attention to his eyes. As I said before, if a boy is interested in you, he will always look at you and sometimes even make you feel a little coy. He may try to make eye contact with you. Of course, if he is shy, the moment you make eye contact with him, he will turn away. There is a good way for you to judge: stare at his face for 4 seconds, then look away (4 seconds is enough, too long will become a bit strange), and then look back-if he keeps eye contact with you, or enhances eye contact, it proves that he is interested in you. If his eyes fall on your mouth, then he has a good impression of you 100%. If he looks at you a little, then he may be a little interested in you. But if he stops making eye contact and starts looking elsewhere, then he may not have feelings for you.

If you stare at a boy, the boy turns his eyes to one side first, then to your face, and then to the other side, then he probably likes you. [2]

Shy boys will sneak a look at you, which is different from not liking you. If he likes you, even if he is shy, he will continue to secretly look at you! Be patient!

It's boring to look at boys you don't like. At this time, you can quickly look away, look around and pretend to be looking for someone.

When he is around you, doing something that makes people around you laugh or telling jokes that make people around you laugh, he will see if you laugh, which shows that he is trying to leave a good impression on you.

If he likes you, his pupils will get bigger. Of course, it's not easy to observe, and if you do this, it will make him feel that you are staring at his eyes. But if you stay with him for a long time, it will be easier to see.

3. Listen to what he says. If he likes you, he will be a little nervous and will try to get close to you. Generally speaking, he will start talking about himself. In most cases, men feel that they should show themselves first, especially when there are other men around you.

Judge his interest by speaking. In fact, it doesn't matter what you say, but the way you speak. So try to whisper close to his shoulder, and gently put your arm on his back to enhance the effect. If he puts his head close to you or tries to touch you, then he has a crush on you. If he doesn't like you, he will shrink back unconsciously. Those cold-hearted people will even shut you out.

4. See if he wants to touch it. Physical contact is an important sign of further development. You can judge whether he likes you by observing the way he touches you or his reaction when you touch him. If he likes you, he may put his hand on your hand or put his leg on your leg when he smiles. Or he will find opportunities to hug you, such as greeting, expressing feelings or making other excuses. On the other hand, you can also see how he reacts when you touch him, try to slide your hand over his neck, or hold his forearm, or slide your finger over his hand while joking. If he likes you, he won't refuse, and even take the opportunity to hold your hand. On the other hand, if he acts very nervous, or touches you at once, it proves that he doesn't like you.

If he is shy, he may be a little surprised at what you did at first. But that doesn't mean he doesn't like you. You need to continue to observe his next behavior patiently.

Of course, those playboys are good at flirting with girls. So let's see how his attitude towards you is different from that towards other girls.

See if he is more willing to have a little contact with you than other girls.

5. Observe whether his attitude towards you is different from that towards others. If he really likes you, he will show "protection" for your gentleman behavior. He may pull the chair closer to you, put his hand behind your chair, or put his coat on the back of your chair, and even dress you when you feel cold.

Some boys may deliberately flirt with other girls to attract your attention. Because they want to know your reaction and judge whether you like him or not. Yes, I know it sounds strange, and you may even get bored or a little confused and give it up! Fortunately, if you watch carefully, you can still know whether he did it on purpose. If he just wants to get your attention, he will secretly watch your performance when flirting with other girls. You can also pretend to go to the bathroom. If he doesn't flirt with other girls as soon as you leave, then he likes you, not others. Or you can pretend to leave and ask your friend to take a look at it for you.

6. See if he suddenly likes what you like. For example, if you tell him your favorite music and he doesn't understand it, he will ask you to recommend some related bands. Or he will take the time to find your favorite band's performance and even offer to watch the performance together. When you mention your favorite TV program to him, he will watch it specially, tell you that the program has become his favorite and discuss the plot with you. These details prove that he likes you.

7. See if he is nervous. Whether he smiles naturally, sweats a little, takes a deep breath to overcome nervousness, or rolls his eyes quickly when you notice him looking at you, these may be like your performance. If he deliberately wants to impress you, it proves that he is trying to win your favor and you can respond appropriately.

8. Observe his friends. If his friends know that he likes you, then they may deliberately joke with him when you are around, suggesting that he likes you and wants to see if you like him. So observe for yourself the performance of his friends-whether they deliberately turned to his strange smile or pretended to be mysterious.

If his friend tells you that this boy likes you, but you can't see other signs, then you should be careful. Some friends will screw things up or just play with you.

9. See if he imitates your movements. Imitating a person is a sign that both parties like, and it is subconscious. If you find that he always imitates your actions, it is likely that he likes you. You can also try to imitate his movements. For example, if he touches his hair, you can touch his hair and imitate his sitting posture. This all implies "I like you, too!" 」

See if he wants to follow you. For example, if you buy lunch and sit at a table, he will sit next to you or even at the same table. But be careful, or it may be because there are not enough seats!

10. See if he played a harmless joke on you. Boys who like to play gentle jokes on you may like your performance. Especially young boys. As long as he doesn't treat every girl like this, it proves that he is using his humor to win your favor. Of course, if his joke is inappropriate, you should ask him directly. Let him know from the beginning that you are worthy of respect.

1 1. Joking with you is also a sign that he likes you. Although it sounds like my brother's behavior, it is precisely because of this that he can take the opportunity to touch you without appearing strange. If you pull back quickly when he hits you, he may become gentle. Of course, that doesn't mean you were still sitting there when he hurt you-tell him he hurt you! You can gently imply that you like being touched by him, but be gentle. But if you are a tomboy and find it interesting to fight back and forth, you can also fight back as a joke.

But such a joke may also mean that he only treats you as a friend, so pay attention to whether he treats other girls like this. In addition, if he keeps doing this, there will be a lot of trouble in the future, and you won't like this immature way, so it's best not to let him go on.

If you don't like him at all, tell him, "Even if you mean well, I don't like the feeling of being beaten. 」

12. See if he often praises you. If one day he notices that your dress style is different from usual, or you change your hairstyle, he probably likes you. Because generally speaking, boys don't notice such small details, let alone praise you. If he praises you and says, "You look beautiful today", "I like your shirt" or "Did you change your hairstyle today? Looks cute "is a strong hint of liking you.

Note: If he is your good friend, his praise doesn't necessarily mean that he likes you.

Not all boys are good at praising girls. So even if he doesn't praise you, don't worry too much

13. See if he will notice the clues of "other men" in you. For example, if you smell aftershave from your father, he may notice and ask you, "Isn't this the smell of aftershave?" But don't let him mistake you for another boy (not your father). You can use this method to deliberately wear some boys' T-shirts and see his reaction.

14. If he always chats with you online, it may mean that he likes you. But he may also spend a lot of time browsing the web, playing games and having no time to chat with you. Even if he chats with you every day, don't think he really likes you. He may just be talkative, or even bored. You should refer to some other comprehensive analysis of behavior.

If he always ends with "kiss" in text messages or emails, it doesn't mean he likes you. He may just regard you as a good friend, or it may just be his habit.

If he says "I know a secret you don't know", it may be that he is playing a guessing game with you to get your attention. But it is also possible that he did find something interesting.

15. Pay attention to whether he often appears suddenly in your place. If you always meet on the same occasion, then he may be deliberately creating opportunities to meet you. If such a thing happens in a short time, it may only be accidental, but if it always happens, it is his intention.

16. Respond to his signal. If he expresses his feelings to you (for example, he always smiles at you, or he comes to say hello), then you should answer politely and friendly. If you think you want to continue to develop with him, don't miss the opportunity, try to get close to him and find a quiet place to talk. But if you don't like him, then stop flirting with him. Tell him you already have someone you like.

skill

Smile and be friendly to him.

Don't give in too easily Boys like challenges.

Try to make him laugh. Boys are like this!

Make fun of him, but laugh when you laugh.

Always be friendly and support him. He will know that you care about him.

Play with him. Boys like this. Like "hit him".

Don't irritate him seriously or make him unhappy, he will think you are a nuisance.

Don't say anything personal that bothers him.

Don't try to force him to accept your liking. This is not always useful. But sometimes jealousy is useful.