How to chat in a relationship with high emotional intelligence

When chatting about love, you should talk about interesting things in life, similar hobbies, gossip, etc.

1. Interesting things in life

Dating is because of love, and chatting is to let each other understand each other better. So finding topics in love can be an interesting part of life. For example, interesting things that happen in your career, family, or life that are related to you can be a good topic, so that the other person can get involved and learn something about the other person's habits.

2. Same hobbies

It is said that only with the same hobbies can there be endless topics of conversation. Although interesting things in life are used as topics, many of them are about one person's life, making the other party feel less involved and less easy to talk to. This can easily lead to awkward conversations, with each person speaking at the top of his lungs. But things are different if people have the same hobbies. Both parties have contact, and it is easier to get people interested in talking about this topic.

3. Humorous gossip

Gossip humor is also a good topic material. It can be the current popular TV series or some popular Weibo topics. This type of topic is easy to find, and it is easy for the other party to improve their image. But this kind of topic can easily make boys too slutty, and it can also make girls feel annoyed.