What are the four sentences that a family with a daughter can't joke about and would rather rot in the stomach?

In fact, many parents have good intentions, but the education methods are too rough. Just like Xiaowen, she always says something to stimulate her daughter, which completely hurts her children's hearts over time. You know, there are four things that parents with daughters should never say, even if they are joking! "Why are you so stupid?"

Every time a child does poorly in the exam or fails to answer a question, many parents will blurt out such a questioning sentence. Although parents are unintentional, this sentence is very lethal. After hearing this sentence, children will fall into deep self-doubt, think that they are really stupid and hopeless, gradually lose self-confidence, lose the motivation to forge ahead, and become more and more inferior. "If you don't listen, I don't want you"

This sentence has been used by many parents. It seems to be a very effective way to make children listen by threatening, but the fear brought by this sentence is also beyond your imagination. Children are still young, and their judgment ability is very weak. Parents' threats and intimidation will make children feel very insecure, become timid in doing things, and learn to look at people at an early age. This is a very sad thing. "When you are an elder sister, make room for your younger brother"

In the eyes of many parents, it is natural for an elder sister to take care of her younger brother, rationalizing many eccentric actions. In the long run, the daughter will be more and more disappointed with her parents. Once the balance of justice is broken, the damage caused to the child's heart will never be made up. This not only affects the feelings of siblings between children, but also affects the affection between parents and children. "If you don't study well, how can you get married later?"

Many parents' thoughts are still in the feudal period, and it is very foolish to say that only by studying well can they get married well. Girls themselves are sensitive and fragile. If parents often use this sentence to attack their children, after a long time, children will become very self-abased and sensitive, and their academic performance will not improve. How should parents communicate with their children, and what should they say more to help their children grow up?

1. "Mom and Dad love you"

Children need a sense of security most, especially girls, so parents should always express their love and let their children know that mom and dad love themselves and are their eternal guardians. Only in this way can children become confident and learn to do things more efficiently.

2. "Parents will support you no matter what"

Parents should be their children's backers and let them know that there is support behind them, so that children can bravely try and make mistakes and become more brave and fearless. A sense of security is very important for girls, and the family will always be the most solid backer for children.

As parents, if we have a daughter at home, we must keep our words and deeds in balance. Bad words hurt people in June, and a hurtful word will leave a permanent scar like a nail.

In order for children to grow up healthily and happily, we must talk more about encouraging warmth and less about sarcasm.