Men who cheat are determined to divorce (Men who cheat are forced to divorce)

I found out that my husband was cheating on me when my children entered kindergarten. I asked my husband what his plans were, and his reply was, "I will definitely break up with my mistress, don't worry." My husband said he needed some time, and I agreed.

In the following days, my husband would always leave early and come home late, and sometimes he would not come back at all at night. I asked where my husband was, and his answer was, "My mistress and I had a showdown. She is not in a good condition. I have to comfort her." Although my heart ached, I thought that my husband's original intention was to return to the family. , I chose to understand.

Three months later, the matter between my husband and his mistress still has not been completely resolved, and I am worried. I asked my husband when I would be able to cut off contact with my mistress. My husband said that I was too impatient and did not understand his difficulties at all.

We quarreled several times, and my husband directly filed for divorce and forced me to divorce in various ways. He said that he was willing to leave the house, as long as he could be with his mistress, and as long as I could help them both.

I feel like a joke. What kind of man have I fallen in love with over the years?

In order to get a divorce, my husband moved to live with his mistress. I couldn’t find my husband, and my child was crying for his father. I didn’t want a divorce yet. In this case, what should I do?

What women fear most is their husband’s cheating. If the husband does not want a divorce, the problem can be easily solved. If the husband forces a woman to divorce, it will be more troublesome to handle the matter. Women should first not get into trouble, secondly, stop with silence, and finally, take the initiative in marriage.

If a man disappears, let him disappear.

If a man disappears and you can't find him, then let him disappear. It makes no sense if a woman puts all her thoughts into finding a man. So what if the woman finds him? It will only make a man feel that he is very important to a woman, and he will not have any good temper towards her.

So, if a man moves to live with his mistress, let him live there. The woman will definitely feel uncomfortable, but if she gives in at this step, the problem will become more difficult to handle.

Find a lawyer for consultation and collect evidence

If a man cheats and lives with his mistress, the woman needs to consult a relevant lawyer to see what she can do at this time. For example, collecting evidence of a man's cheating can be used as evidence in court in the future.

Even if the two don't divorce one day, evidence is one of the man's weaknesses. He definitely doesn't want his cheating to make a fuss all over the city. If the two get divorced one day, the existence of evidence will also be beneficial to the woman, and at least she can get more property.

Showdown with a man and let him make his own choice

Women must believe that men will also quarrel with their mistresses, especially when the mistress is anxious to take over, men will have no patience. . Even if a woman doesn't take the initiative to look for a man, a man will look for a woman. When a man takes the initiative, the woman's initiative is in her own hands.

A woman can give a man several choices about what her conditions will be if she gets divorced. If not divorce, what is her request? At this point, the initiative to divorce or not to divorce is in the woman's hands.

Marriage is not something a woman can do whatever she wants. If you want to continue living it, it also depends on the man’s choice. When a man abandons you cruelly, don't look back. Keep moving forward and you will have hope in your life.