Blind date topic,

a man and a woman, strangers; Dressed in disguise, BLACKPINK appeared; Clever words, if you want to say it, you will rest; It's a blind date, not a play, but it's better than a play. Even the most basic sincerity is child's play; If one party has a crush on the other and the other party doesn't feel it at all, it is called a game; If you don't like each other, you will have no chance; Get married on the same day immediately, it must be a model drama set by the gods 5 years ago.

Make bold comments on most planned blind dates. Before they meet, they have mastered each other's basic information, such as education, job, personality, family composition, etc. When they meet conscientious parents or matchmakers, even a few moles on each other's faces are counted from the photos.

As a result, the most important purpose of blind date is whether it is pleasing to the eye. The standard of pleasing to the eye seems simple, but in fact it is mysterious and unpredictable. Fortunately, men and women have the most basic curiosity about how this one who comes to blind date sees himself, whether they see each other at first sight or not.

Therefore, you should make use of the curiosity of the other party and speak your comments boldly and to the point at the first time. This is much more nutritious than a long self-introduction and not knowing the so-called topic. It not only looks natural and graceful, but also expresses your sincerity, and can attract the great attention of the other party at the first time. If she is really good-looking, you can say, "Nice to meet you. You are beautiful." Remember to be sincere.

If she looks average, there is no need to lead her to beauty. You can evaluate her temperament or dress or something. Ruthless self-mockery when dating, some people are used to holding themselves to the clouds in the sky, talking about their ability and how many people pursue them, thinking that this can attract each other. < P > I don't know that it is a sign of guilty conscience. Once it is seen through by the discerning, the taste of falling from the clouds to the bottom can be unpleasant. A truly confident person is good at self-mockery, and President Lincoln will make fun of himself, especially his appearance: "Sometimes I feel like an ugly person. The ugly man met an old woman in the forest, and the old woman said, you are the ugliest person I have ever seen.

the ugly man replied, I can't help it. The old woman replied, no, you have a way, at least you can stay at home! " This and today's "it's not your fault to be ugly, but it's your fault to be scary" are like a joke, which was used by President Lincoln to open the embarrassing situation of talking with others. < P > It is almost invincible. Boasting often makes the other person have the idea that it's actually so much, while self-mockery will make the other person think that it's not so bad. This sensory difference can determine the other person's rating standard for you. On the other hand, people who are good at self-mockery often have strong self-confidence, which will certainly be shown in your measured self-mockery and will also make the other person feel it < P >. In addition, it doesn't hurt to start with yourself, even if you don't have a good sense of proportion, it can also make the other person's attention more naturally put on you. Zhao Benshan said to Song Dandan, "I'll tell you a joke, and then open the awkward situation." Appropriate jokes and humor are always good weapons to open an embarrassing situation.

blind date is a drama. Even though it may not have an ending, at the very least, we should make the blind date process as pleasant as possible, and make it a "comedy" instead of a "boring drama".

But humor is easier said than done. How to grasp the scale is the biggest problem, and it will be bad to turn it into a lip service. For example, Fiona met such a blind date and tried to show humor in front of her, but the result was cold. Fiona asked, "Where did you work?" He said, "How do you know my uncle is tall?" Fiona said, "I like men with taste." He said, "Oh, I haven't bathed for days. You can smell it.

"Fiona is so angry that she wants to leave directly-when the other person talks to you seriously about the problem, this self-righteous humorous answer will make the other person feel insincere. Good example "If You Are the One" Although this blind date is treated as a joke in the movie, this kind of outspoken blind date can avoid many future troubles.

Ge You: "How often do you think is appropriate?" The woman stretched out a finger. Ge You: Once a month? Woman: "Well, this is my ideal state. Can it be once a year?" Ge You: "If we get married, you won't find where I sleep." Woman: "Is that so interesting?"

Ge You: "There is ... meaning ... thinking ... ah." Bad example "Yang Decai's Marriage" This is an old joke, which was used by Pan Changjiang in blind date movies. Woman: "Do you have a Buick?" Pam: "No." Woman: "Do you have three bedrooms and one living room?" Pam: "No." Pan: "after my BMW breaks down, I can consider changing to Buick." I don't have three bedrooms and one living room. My home is a villa on the upper and lower floors. " After the speech, the woman's eyes flashed. Pan shook his head and left.