No one should laugh at anyone in life.

Marriage is like a sophisticated instrument, which must be carefully operated and coordinated by both husband and wife. These two instruments and equipment are powerful, which can help you overcome the hardships in your life and make your life a lot easier. But at the same time, it is also weak. A little doubt and temptation may cause it to fall apart from the inside.

In the process of couples getting along, it is inevitable that everyone will play some jokes and negotiate the atmosphere to add more color to ordinary life. It is a joke to have an appropriate limit on this matter and know what topics can and cannot be said. But some people don't believe these evils, so they have to test their marriage life with jokes and doubt each other's feelings. Later, the two were divided, and the couple had bad feelings in their hearts. No matter how good the relationship is, don't make these four "jokes" casually, it is very easy to stir up emotions!

0 1 "If one day I don't love you, will I fight?"

From the moment you step into marriage, lovers will eventually become husband and wife, both family members, and the recognition between relatives will never compromise. But some couples are always imagining some lonely scenes, and their minds are half-jokingly asking, "If one day I don't love you, do you love to fight?" A joke is always intended by the listener, but not by the speaker. You forget your jokes once, but people who listen to them for free can remember them. You just "if you don't love her", but she has long fantasized that "you really don't love her". This kind of joke is neither funny nor funny, and there is no need to test the lover's reaction with assumptions. On the contrary, it will make couples slowly lose trust.

If I get terminally ill, will you save me?

A friend of a gentleman is as light as water. The feelings between husband and wife always appear in times of crisis. Life is alive, as long as it involves survival, it is a big event, and no joke is allowed. But some women are not shy when they talk, and suddenly they ask half jokingly, "If I get terminally ill, will you save me?"

Boys are mostly objective microorganisms, and there are not many sweet words that can make you happy, so at this time, you may not get a satisfactory answer. Faced with these problems, boys only need to think deeply and be silent for a while, and women will immediately cry and doubt the sincerity of boys. No one knows what his husband will choose when he is not on the line of life and death. Usually, judging a man's sincerity with such an assumption is simply to find himself unhappy. Why bother?

"What should I do if I get divorced, love battle?"

"Divorce" is undoubtedly the most sensitive word in marriage. If couples joke about "divorce" in their marriage life, it is easy to cause suspicion and suspicion. When a man says this half-jokingly, it will inevitably make a woman feel uneasy and will never doubt her husband's loyalty again. Even if I later said it was just a joke, women would not easily eliminate their deep concerns.

Men should understand that it is difficult to gain the trust of women. If you have a problem with her in the future, she will think of today's joke and think that you can't stick to this marriage for a long time. Don't assume married life on any occasion, let alone joke about the life and death of married life. Your joke was easy, but she inadvertently became true.

04 "How did I like you?"

From getting to know each other, knowing each other, falling in love, to getting married and getting a certificate, it is not easy, so we should cherish it. Living under the same roof, we will experience many things together, and it is normal to have differences. Husband and wife should tolerate each other and accommodate each other. I will let you this time, and you will let me next time. No matter how noisy and noisy it is, don't say anything ugly, and don't say anything you shouldn't joke about. As an adult, you must be rational and not do whatever you want. Choose together, have different connections and become very special people. Think more about each other. Don't let him suffer from insomnia for a long time because of your words.

Emotional message: there are not necessarily so many jokes in married life. Sometimes, the person who opens his mouth will feel that he doesn't matter, but the person who listens will feel that he is indifferent and loses trust in himself. Therefore, in the future marriage, don't joke about defection, physical and mental health and divorce. These topics are neither interesting nor funny, and it is easier to inadvertently cool each other's love for you. If you really can't joke easily and don't know how to speak, then please play dumb, shut up and keep your heart. Don't let a joke cause differences and make yourself regret it.