"Man struggles upwards ..." is the biggest joke of social comparison among acquaintances.

Man struggles upwards, but water flows downwards. The original metaphor is positive, which means that a person should work hard, strive hard, keep climbing, get higher and higher in his position, or make continuous progress in his career.

Nowadays, it is no longer a career change, but a geographical change.

Sister Yu is a resident of the village. She has worked in third-tier cities for many years. A few years ago, she finally paid the down payment and bought a house in the city. For the local city dwellers, Sister Yu is just a poor person who came here from the countryside to buy a house at a high price, but for Sister Yu, she is already a city dweller.

Every time I go back to my hometown in the countryside from the city, Sister Yu is on her high horse, acting like I'm from the city and I'm superior. Especially when I meet the "poor relatives" who stay in the village, it is even more pointing. It is not good or right for people to do something.

But when Sister Yu returns to the city, she will be angry with the city people. This is not her next-door neighbor, Aunt Hua, but a local.

Aunt Hua often complains that Sister Yu's house is noisy, and a group of rural people often drink until midnight, but they don't know the rules and are dirty. Sister Yu is angry and hates Aunt Hua's complaint, but what can she do?

Aunt Hua also has the trouble of looking down on rural people. The biggest trouble is that her son does not live up to expectations.

There used to be more than 100 local residents in this community, but now there are only 70 or 80 local residents left.

No, Aunt Li upstairs was taken to Shanghai by her son yesterday.

Say this, Li Yi! He's not bad. He used to sew clothes for others. His son has got good grades since he was a child. Later, he was admitted to Fudan University in Shanghai. After graduating from graduate school, he stayed in Shanghai to work. Now it is a state-owned enterprise executive! Not only married a wife in Shanghai, but also bought a house.

Every time aunt Hua thinks of this! My heart hurts. It's my disappointing son and useless old man.

But don't think that everything will be fine in Shanghai, a first-tier big city, because Shanghai locals don't think so.

When you come to settle in Shanghai and become a Shanghai native in a first-tier metropolis, you feel very proud and proud. But Shanghainese see that you foreigners are all country people.

Of course, Shanghainese also have a sense of urgency when they look at Shanghainese. If Shanghai locals don't get along well and stay in Shanghai all the time, they will also be laughed at by Shanghai people.

As a national first-tier metropolis, economic and financial center. As a Shanghainese, as a well-mixed Shanghainese, staying in Shanghai is looked down upon, and going to second-and third-tier cities will be looked down upon by acquaintances, let alone the countryside. So their goal is to go abroad.

You see, Shanghainese go to Japan, especially to America. When they come back from abroad, the phrase "I am an American" … can make them feel so proud and proud. Then pointing fingers at poor relatives in China is not suitable for him or her.

Accompany Sister Yu from the city to the countryside. ...