Look down on your current body in words and attitudes, understand, don't be silly.

A friend I haven't contacted for a long time suddenly chatted with me and talked about the topic of "contempt". She took time out of her busy schedule to talk to me because she was blocked. The first thing she said was, "Vision Wei, do you think a person's funeral will be written on his face?" I've been having a bad time recently, and even the security guard at the door dares to yell at me. "

There are more than one thing that bothers her, from family life to work, and even as she said in the first sentence, even strangers on the road are not friendly to her.

After a long communication, I probably figured out the reason for her depression. The loss caused by long-term marginalization will really be written on her face.

There are always some people in society who think they are particularly smart, so they don't take others seriously at all, and even deliberately suppress others in order to show their "intelligence".

The reason why a friend is so depressed is because she has been with someone who looks down on her for a long time. Under the pressure of layers, the whole person gradually loses his sense of security. This lack of self-confidence is reflected in her face, which is seen by more people at a glance, making strangers treat her very badly.

The emergence of this situation can be said to be a vicious circle. Positive people are more and more positive, and negative people are more and more negative. To put it bluntly, when a person is brainwashed negatively by others, everything around him will become difficult and bumpy.

Be modest and prudent, but not too modest. If someone around you has a low opinion of you, the first thing that comes to mind is not how to make yourself "better", but whether you are really bad.

Some people's "harsh suggestions" are not really good for you, or they may just be deliberately suppressed out of contempt. Look down on your body's current words and attitude, and those who say these words look down on you. Look, don't be silly.

In interpersonal relationships, the most basic thing is equality. If their status is not equal, it is difficult for these two people to maintain a comfortable relationship with each other.

There are always some people in life who like to express themselves in a commanding tone. Don't be silly to think that such a person is straightforward. In fact, they really look down on you.

You know, no matter how proud a person is, he knows how to respect you. If a person talks to you in a provocative tone, even if you discuss it with the other person in a good voice, you will only get a contemptuous response, and you can basically conclude that the other person looks down on you.

Don't hold the person who ignores your love. Although the relationship needs to be maintained, it is not unilaterally maintained. Smart people know how to find out each other's attitude in daily life.

There is a very interesting word in China's idiom, which tells the story of burning tea. Boiling water is needed to make tea. If you deliberately make tea without waiting for the water to boil, the taste of the brewed tea can be imagined.

Of course, those who don't say which pot doesn't open and mention which pot are usually intentional. In interpersonal communication, what to say and what not to say, but any normal person can know what to say.

But some people like to see others make a fool of themselves, so they try their best to say which pot can't be opened in front of everyone. For example, if someone else is short, it is necessary to discuss the shameful topic of wearing a cushion with others.

Those who intentionally expose scars can be interpreted as unintentional once. If they are exposed many times, please be vigilant and try to stay away from such people.

Don't doubt that those who talk to you with guns and sticks may have any difficulties. They really don't have any difficulties, but simply don't like you.

Joking is the most common situation between people, and the purpose of joking is often to narrow the distance between them. Of course, a normal joke is harmless, and it is a joke to say something slightly excessive in an atmosphere where everyone feels relaxed and humorous.

If a joke makes you feel very sad, then it is no longer a joke, but a mockery.

Those who sneer at you under the guise of joking are simply not worth continuing to associate with, even if they say "Why can't you even joke?" The so-called face need not be contested.

You know, many times it's not your fault that you can't afford to joke, but the other person's fault.

Attitude can best reflect a person's heart. If a person completely ignores your existence, then no matter how friendly he is, he is basically untrustworthy.

You know, some people are set up by others in this society, and they ask themselves to be kind to others, so no matter how reluctant they are, they will do enough superficial work.

However, a person's true feelings can't be faked, and it's easy to tell whether they are genuine or superficial.

Most people who are perfunctory to you look down on you from the bottom of their hearts. Whether you ask for advice or talk to the other person, their feedback is always an "embarrassed and polite smile".

In interpersonal communication, people who never give you constructive suggestions are not worthy of deep friendship, and perfunctory means not paying attention to and looking down on them.

Chen Wei said: I hope your life will be better after listening to me.