What did respect others say?

Only by respecting others can others respect you, and they can gradually like you.

Generally speaking, people often have an inviolable sense of protection for self-esteem. Therefore, once a person's self-esteem is violated or attacked, even if they apologize later, I'm afraid it can't make up for the bad relationship between the two sides; On the contrary, if you can take care of each other's self-esteem and think about each other's self-esteem, then the other party will inevitably express friendship and gratitude to you.

For example, when everyone was talking and laughing around the table, one person told a joke in a fun way, which made the whole audience laugh and the atmosphere was very happy. However, before the laughter died down, suddenly another person said, "This is really an interesting joke, but I read it in a magazine last month." Perhaps this person's purpose is to show his superior sense of consciousness, but what is his real evaluation? And how does the person who told jokes feel at this time? Generally speaking, the latter acts like a predator, because he has no regard for the former's position and takes away the position that the former has established in the hearts of everyone without leaving any room. Moreover, for the former, it is tantamount to demoralizing, losing face and even seriously affecting personal self-esteem. As for the audience present, I believe that neither the latter will be inclined to the latter because of its superior style, nor will it detract from the evaluation of the former.

In short, it is a very important way to be human and one of the indispensable elements of popularity to take into account the mentality and position of others and respect their self-esteem.