When we first met, both sides were very satisfied. Later, we asked her out once and she had a good time. I send her messages and tell jokes every day these days.

it is a small world small world ! This is the kind of girl I am.

I am the kind of guy who is enthusiastic and looks cheerful at the first meeting. But the second time I meet the same boy, I will be embarrassed.

I didn't know why this happened at first, but then I analyzed it myself.

I am more enthusiastic about the boy I met for the first time because I don't think I will meet him again. But the main reason can not be ignored. After all, you hit it off the first time you met him, and you can be very enthusiastic.

Specifically, I am not a very lively girl, so there will always be a kind of "after all, this is the first time we meet, and we may not meet again, so throw caution to the wind!" Laugh happily if you want, with a smile on your lips. It's only once anyway! Show enthusiasm! "This idea, you also want to understand, often meet for the first time, because I don't know each other at all, so I want to say a lot, and I want to ask a lot of questions, which will naturally make me more cheerful than usual-

When you meet the same person for the second time, you will be embarrassed for no reason, so embarrassed that you don't even want to say hello to him. Afterwards, I knew I might hurt him, but when I met him, I couldn't care less. Anyway, it's embarrassing.

Maybe many people don't understand why I'm embarrassed. I think it may be because I am not the cheerful girl in everyone's eyes! ? The average girl will meet a guy who can talk well for the first time, but it's not that easy for me.

Later, I asked my psychology teacher this strange question. He said that people like me (not only girls but also boys) are not good at expressing themselves and communicating with others ... in short, they are so-called introverts! The characteristic of this kind of people is that the interaction with unfamiliar people (such as the first conversation) or very familiar people (such as family members) is ordinary, even more enthusiastic than the average person. But we are not good at communicating with people between the two, like people who meet for the second time and the third time, which means that we are not familiar enough, but we are not completely strangers.

Personally, I think what the teacher said is in line with my characteristics, so it's not that I hate that boy that ignores him, but that my personality is at work and makes me feel embarrassed.

Similarly, I don't think she hates you. If I were him, I hope you can be bold, take the initiative to come and chat with me and find some interesting topics to make me forget my embarrassment, even if you say hello, I will ignore you.

Another possibility is that he likes you, because if I like a boy at the first meeting, I will ignore him at the second meeting. It's also because of embarrassment, which is even more embarrassing. ......

My explanation is a bit long. After all, I am only 18 years old, and I still can't fully understand my mind. But I'm telling you, she has the same behavior and feels that she has found a compatriot-

I hope you can understand my explanation-