There is an old saying: "The royal family and the country love their eldest son, but the people love him." Why?

An old saying? The royal family loves the eldest son, but what do the people love? Because for the emperor, his first son will become a prince, and he will be a candidate for Chu Jun in the future. In this case, of course, he will be full of love for his eldest son; For ordinary families, Yao is more popular and favored, because Yao is their last child and has more time and energy to take care of him. The reason for this division is that they have different starting points and different ways of thinking.

In the long feudal history of our country, the prince was always the same? Do you want to grow up or not? Big principle. What do you mean? That is to say, when the emperor wants to establish Chu Jun, he will give priority to his eldest son, because he is the most reasonable heir, and the eldest son is justified. Under such a traditional concept, the whole royal family will naturally love the eldest son more, because he is the future heir and hope of the country.

For us ordinary people, there is not so much love for our eldest son. On the one hand, because of family conditions, we are not allowed to pour more love into our eldest son; On the other hand, because the eldest son has other brothers and sisters to take care of, they not only can't get more love from their parents, but also help their parents take care of their brothers and sisters. The situation of the elderly at home is different. This is the last child of his parents, and he is often loved by thousands of people. I have all kinds of care and care from my parents, as well as the love from my brothers and sisters. Therefore, for ordinary families, Lao Yao is more popular.

Therefore, in view of the above situation, the royal family born in ancient times is naturally the best eldest son, because they can get more love and inherit the unification in the future. For ordinary families, the oldest child is the happiest, because the oldest child is the last child of parents, and they have time and energy to take care of it.