How to find a topic in picking up girls

First, find the same topic of * * * on both sides and arouse a person's interest in chatting. The first step is to find the same topic of * * * between two people, so as to reciprocate and continue chatting. Otherwise, talk about some obscure knowledge that only you know, such as how to solve this physical problem, an outer space planet and so on. This will make girls unable to continue, and will not want to chat with themselves, so they are not interested in themselves. When you find that two people have a common topic, for example, they both like watching this TV series, you can talk about the plot, actors, acting skills and so on. Second, learn to use Yan characters. In recent years, the most popular chat tool is Yan Wen. I believe many people will use this expression pack when chatting, and some very interesting expression packs will make people feel that they are all people with a good sense of humor. Then, when chatting, if you don't know how to start or go next, you can use some funny expression packs that everyone knows, so that the chat between two people will not be cold. Therefore, I usually encounter some fun expression packs. I suggest collecting them. Maybe they will be useful. Third, don't ask questions frequently. In order to make the chat between two people less embarrassing, many people will keep looking for topics to talk about. But sometimes if you don't know which topics are taboo, it's easy to make the other person angry and then make her ignore herself. This requires restraint when chatting, and don't expose your thoughts too much or get to the bottom of it. You can find a topic, but you don't need to ask questions frequently, so that the other person feels that he is a chatterbox and doesn't want to chat with himself again. Fourth, we can talk about pets together. Most girls like furry animals very much. Because it is cute and cute, I often pay attention to some kittens and puppies. If you really don't know what to talk about, you can tell the girl that you have met a lovely cat recently and don't know how to take care of it. This will not only give you extra points in the hearts of girls, but also give people the impression of being compassionate and caring for small animals. You can talk about sports and food together. This is also a common topic, because everyone will always encounter sports or delicious food in their lives. For some girls, losing weight is contact exercise. At this time, knowing some sports topics will keep her interested, and she can also teach or learn from each other, meet together to lose weight, and set a small goal, so that she can find a topic for the next chat. How to find a topic in Picking up Girls 2 1 and start to pay attention to your image? To exaggerate, if a man goes out for three days without washing his hair, his clothes look like they came out of a garbage dump, his nails are long and full of dirt, and the most important thing is that he has no image in public, such as spitting (which he has seen the most), and so on. Girls are already "shunned" 800 miles away. If you can observe the details of the above paragraph, you should know that "image" includes "shape" and "inner shape", such as hairstyle, clothing, nails, skin and eyebrows, all of which are shapes. All actions in public reflect a person's "inner form". So if you want girls to like it, the most basic job is to "study both inside and outside" and don't feel trouble. All people who want to get the result of "change" need to be slow and steady step by step. 2, began to jump out of the mindset, many people always say to understand women, understand women. Yes, you must first understand women, but it also needs to understand women from the heart, from the heart and with an equal attitude. Due to some conceptual reasons, many men subconsciously have a slightly biased view of women. Some may think that women do housework just to get married and have children, and some especially want to know whether the other party has been in love, how many times, and so on. If you want to be a king, don't learn to pick up girls, because the king has many sisters and doesn't tease. Therefore, we must first abandon the concept of self in order to better understand the sister. Of course, there are certain ways to understand girls. What many boys don't understand most is "taking care of girls' emotions". The so-called needle in a woman's heart, but you don't need to go to the sea to catch this needle, you just need to know what this needle looks like. As for women's emotions, to give the simplest example, girls often don't need you to provide solutions to problems unless they really want you. For example, when she complained to you about something unhappy today, she just wanted to talk to you about her unhappy mood, not ask you to provide a solution. At this time, as long as you walk into her mood and sing wildly, your relationship will be further enhanced. For another example, when a girl comes to her period and tells you that she has a stomachache, she doesn't want you to say something like "drink more hot water or rest more", but she needs to say something like "If only I could be with you at this time, I would …" to calm the girl's mood. This is the importance of taking care of girls' emotions. 3. Many boys who start chatting but can't chat may have made the mistake of asking for photos when checking accounts. But if you know girls well enough, they are puzzled and disgusted by these behaviors of a boy they just met. So you can chat in different ways-guided chat. For a simple example, you want to ask a girl out to see a movie this weekend, but you don't know if this girl is free this weekend. In the past, you might ask, "Do you have any plans for the weekend?" This question can't be said to be wrong, but it is easily overlooked by girls. The guided chat is like this: "I feel that you are free this weekend, and you haven't decided the arrangement yet ~". This kind of chat will make girls pay attention to your guidance, and may also lead to more topics, such as the next sentence: "How do you feel?". Of course, in the initial chat, it is best to follow a principle when asking questions, that is, "Don't ask unless you really want to know", and don't start the "blind question" mode as soon as there is no topic. If you really want to know information, you can use guided chat to make a demonstration. 4, began to become "not very talkative" Maybe some people think that chatting should not become more talkative? How can we become "less talkative"? Actually, this is relative. When chatting with girls, many boys easily fall into a misunderstanding, that is, "beating" or "dressing up". Where are you from? Female: Beijing Male: Beijing, I know, the air there is not good, balabala Female: I think it's ok. Man: Well, that's because you haven't been to enough places. The xxx I went to before was much better than there. No wonder Balabala, now many boys know that chasing girls depends on attraction and value attraction, but they don't understand the core key of value attraction, and the result is that cattle blow loudly. Therefore, when you can't show your value, you'd better say nothing, or you will become a fool, which has no future. 5. The beginning of "sincerity" is not honesty, but sincerity. Many boys like to collect some love stories about picking up girls, such as "I find you look like a person ... like my girlfriend". As everyone knows, these are old-fashioned. When you say a word, it comes out, and I can feel awkward through the screen. But in the final analysis, what boys do is just to adjust the atmosphere or tease emotions, which can be done at the ambiguous stage, but it is really inappropriate to dump this "pick up girls" when they meet for the first time. The correct way is to be a man with a story and share your stories, experiences and feelings with women, so that she can understand your interests from these conversations. 6. At first, you will praise who won't, just like "You have a good look" and "You have a good temperament". But this kind of praise is only a superficial "courtship", not a heartfelt compliment. Only inadvertently mentioned, as well as praise without purpose, will make girls' emotions fluctuate strongly. For example, girls gain weight and are upset during this period, which is a good time to praise them. For example, you can say, "I think you are so nice. You are not all skin and bones, but you feel very sexy." Such aimless praise can make the other person have a great emotional experience.