Why do people always say that I can't talk?

First of all, we should treat speech correctly. Whether in work or study, or between friends and family members, the purpose of speaking is communication: communication at work, emotional communication and academic communication. Besides, it's not too much. Some people talk too much and talk endlessly as a whole, but everyone hates it. Moreover, some people talk little and say some classic words from time to time, and everyone will think that this person is very powerful. Therefore, the purpose of speaking is not to see how much is said, but to see if there is effective communication.

Secondly, we should correctly treat ourselves as dumb and unable to speak. The reason why you are dumb doesn't mean that you are worse than others, because everyone has their own good side. Don't completely deny yourself just because you are dumb. The dumb can't speak, which is often caused by the growing environment. When we were young, we couldn't choose our own growth environment, but when we grow up, we should be responsible for ourselves. Before the age of 20, we are determined by our parents' growing environment, but after the age of 30, our appearance is determined by ourselves. Therefore, in your twenties, you should actively change yourself from now on.

Thirdly, we should correctly understand the real reason why we are dumb and unable to speak. People who are often dumb and can't talk don't suddenly become dumb and can't talk, but have been dumb for a long time. Those dumb people who can't speak have lost the opportunity to learn to speak because they have little communication with others since childhood and don't like to talk. And those who can talk often like to talk from an early age. Practice makes perfect, so they can speak when they grow up. Therefore, the reason why you can't speak is because you talk too little, communicate too little with others and have less knowledge. You are a stranger, so you naturally don't know what to say when you meet people.

Finally, what if you are dumb and can't talk? As mentioned above, the dumb can't speak for two reasons: less knowledge and less words. So we should prescribe the right medicine. First of all, we should establish self-confidence and dare to change ourselves. You can read more books, cultivate your hobbies, take part in more activities and experience more things to increase your knowledge. The more you know, the easier it is to talk to people. And in some activities and social occasions, you can also see others speak for yourself. As the saying goes, you can learn from others next time. Thirdly, you need to think about it a little when you speak, and don't say anything that hurts others, so as not to cause misunderstanding.